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Mark 孟怀瑾
51 • Dongguan, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 33 - 54
Strong and steady, seeking my soft and sweet.
🔥 For the woman who wants a man who leads, protects, and loves with his whole heart. I’m a passionate, driven man who has spent his life building, leading, and growing—but the greatest adventure? Finding my person. The woman who makes the best things even better just by being there. I know exactly what I want—a deep, unshakable connection with the right woman. I’m a leader, a protector, and a man who always shows up. Whether it’s through laughter, deep conversation, or a stolen glance across the room, I want a love that’s powerful, undeniable, and built to last. I thrive on adventure, meaningful conversations, and living with purpose. My life has taken me across the world, and I’m always chasing growth—physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Longevity isn’t just about living longer; it’s about living better. Every day, I push myself to be stronger, wiser, and more present, ensuring I have the energy, vitality, and depth to give my best to the woman I love. I believe in something bigger than myself—whether it’s through mindfulness, personal reflection, or the quiet wisdom found in stillness. I see life as a journey of continuous evolution, always learning, always deepening my understanding of love, purpose, and connection. And when I love, I give everything—deep passion, great intimacy, and a connection that only strengthens with time. I want to wake up every day knowing that the woman beside me is my best friend, my deepest love, and the greatest part of my life. I’m drawn to a woman who is kind-hearted, confident, feminine, and truly embraces life—someone who not only nurtures her soul but also takes care of her body, inside and out. A woman who values her health, radiates energy, and carries herself with grace—because how we care for ourselves reflects how we show up in love. Someone who knows how to be soft and sweet but also isn’t afraid to challenge me in the best ways. Bonus points if you have a flirty, playful side… because while I may be strong and steady, I’m also more than a little bit naughty. You be my soft and sweet, and I’ll be your strong and steady. Love, at its best, is about lifting each other up, holding each other close, and building something unshakable together. If this speaks to your heart, let’s not waste any more time. Note: I’ve lived and worked in China (Guangdong) since 2020, so meeting up should be easy if we’re a great match. I’m looking for a real connection—a relationship built on passion, trust, and deep compatibility, leading to marriage. I’m not here for endless texting, so if you’re genuinely interested, send me a message with more than just “Hi.” Tell me something about yourself, and let’s see where this goes.
Steve
64 • Hancheng, Shaanxi, China
Seeking: Female 32 - 65
Men are made of mud, women are made of water.
I have lived and worked in many countries as a musician and teacher, so you can say that I am a somewhat worldly and intellectual man. I would also consider myself spiritual, although not necessarily religious. You could say that I believe in unity, and what religions and people have in common, rather than what separates them. Maybe we are all looking for our SOUL MATES, although I am not completely sure what a soul mate is. If we can say that it is someone with whom we feel completely comfortable, whether you have a karmic connection, or maybe she simply 'gels' with you? You wake up in the morning, smile and think 'There she is.' And your heart warms at the thought of spending another day with her, life is easy! Is that going too far? Maybe a little, but we are talking about Soul Mates. You engage easily in conversation, complement each other, learn from and understand each other, even if you don't always agree. You don't always have to explain your jokes, even though English humour can be a bit subtle, or difficult to understand. WINK WINK!! You have each other's back, and stick together through thick and thin, exuding a natural loyalty. I am also an artistic person, and appreciate/love art and music of all types from the dawn of time to the most contemporary. I have an interest in Chinese Martial Arts, and other forms of exercise, such as yoga, running, cycling and meditation.
Emilio
55 • Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 33 - 53
Hey! Are you my other half?
Wonderful, fantastic and wonderful again. I am a gentleman, well educated, family oriented, kind, romantic, strong, clever, passionate, good humor, interesting, healthy, creative, fun, loyal, financially independent, self employed, I look 10 years younger than my age because I take care of myself, I eat and cook healthy food and workout at the gym, I have a young spirit and a young heart that can love you and make you warm. I have two beautiful daughters that are very beautiful and well behaved, 12 and 8 years old. I have lived in Shenzhen for 12 years and I am fluent at English, Spanish and Chinese. I can speak and read Chinese and I already know your Chinese culture and have adapted well. So if you like my profile you are welcome to write me. Life is too short to waste it in nonsense, hold my hand and let’s start our new wonderful life darling.
Iain
63 • Beijing, Beijing, China
Seeking: Female 25 - 65
start as Friends: Nothing to lose - all to gain
Now in Wuqing near to Beijing! interested to get to know an honest and caring people to be friends with and maybe more in time. I have a young attitude to life and believe that friendship, fun and respect is the most important start to a relationship. I am passionate about writing and singing songs , playing guitar and dancing. 现在在武清，靠近北京！有兴趣认识一个诚实和有爱心的人与他们成为朋友，或者可能会更及时。我对生活抱有年轻的态度，并相信友谊，乐趣和尊重是建立关系最重要的开始。 我热衷于写歌，唱歌，弹吉他和跳舞。
Sam
38 • Hangzhou, Zhejiang, China
Seeking: Female 21 - 33
Looking for fun and interesting one ~~
I am a highly educated, open-minded, and very romantic person. My hobbies are traveling, playing various kinds of sports, reading and watching movies, listening to music, hiking, like to watch funny videos, skating, swimming, etc. I like adventure activities. I think of myself as a romantic person, gentle, kind, and kind. I always try to stay positive and try to see the best in People and situations. I live a healthy lifestyle and enjoy sports.
Nije
54 • Qingdao, Shandong, China
Seeking: Female 29 - 47
Within 200km of Quigdao please!
Hi. I am looking for someone in or close to Qingdao (within 200km) I hvae found that living too far away is not successful! Some ladies use this site to contact any foreigner and those I am not interested in. Only contact me if you are interested and we can exchange wechats and go from there My name is nije and use that to find me. add 68
Kerry
51 • Guangzhou, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 35 - 50
American Businessman & MBA Professor.
I am an American businessman with an MBA Degree. I am kind, have an outgoing friendly personality, humorous and happy. Also, I own a company in China, an MBA Professor and I train managers at large international companies in China. Importantly, I enjoy my life in China and enjoy sports, music, art, am outgoing, friendly, humorous and love Chinese culture. Also, I have lived in China many years. I enjoy learning new ideas, and I adapt well, learn, evolve and change. I never lose, I either win or learn.
Gary
61 • Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking: Female 34 - 47
forever & a day !
Hello, everyone! I'm here in search of a genuine connection with someone who values honesty, loyalty, and kindness. I believe in being true to myself and others, and I always strive to bring positivity and fun into every aspect of my life. In terms of appearance, I've been told that I'm a handsome individual, but I believe that true beauty lies within a person's character. I take pride in my success and education, as they have helped shape me into the person I am today. What I'm really looking for is a forever friend, someone who will stand by my side through thick and thin. I value loyalty above all else, and I promise to reciprocate that loyalty in return. Together, we can build a strong and lasting bond based on trust and understanding. If you're someone who appreciates honesty, enjoys having a good time, and is looking for a reliable and genuine connection, then I would love to get to know you better. Let's embark on this exciting journey together and see where it takes us!
Ramiro
51 • Xiamen, Fujian, China
Seeking: Female
Christian man
I am lay back guy who likes to enjoy life as much as possible. I enjoy dinning, sightseeing, shopping. traveling, enjoy coffee with friends. Happiness is a factor for a good health, so I encorage friends to try to be happy in daily life. I am looking for a serious relationship leading to life time commitment.
Kenny
45 • Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Shall We Dance?
I grew up in Australia and just come to Hong Kong for a new job. I am a business man sometimes have to travel; Hong Kong, Australia, Thailand, USA, China, Macau, I usually comes & goes. A lot of times I also come to China; Chinese people is true & sincere and I love to be friends of them. I am also a very sportive people and looks quite good indeed. I like driving cos it gives me freedom. I am the kind of person that give great respects to people. Come, talk to me & let's share our world. But for girls who like to PLAY GAMES please leave me alone, I am here to fine true, sincere lady for true relationship. 我在美國長大,現在香港工作, 我本人是个誠懇的人, 願能找到真心朋友; 我和女友分手了年多，希望能找到一個真心愛我的人；我身形及相貌也不差，一向對女友照顧愛謢有加，應是個不差的男友; 本人現職誇國企業行政人員, 獨居高層大宅, 為人樂觀進取, 現仍堅持進修及每週遊泳鍛鍊三至四次, 條件太差者請勿浪費時間 **我不是玩遊戲的，來這是真心找合適的人發展從而組織幸福家庭，如妳是找遊戲的人，抱歉打擾了!
Mark
54 • Beijing, Beijing, China
Seeking: Female 35 - 55
A hopelessly romantic teacher desires life partner
I'm an American teacher living and working in Beijing. I'm now starting my 4th year in China and I live here because I love China's rich history, culture, and people. I teach history and English. Away from school I love watching movies, listening to music (sometimes trying to dance), and enjoying conversation over coffee or tea.
Rahul
40 • Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking: Female 24 - 55
Simple calim and fun loving person
Simple person looking for same whether good friends or genuine relationship Would be glad to receive your response and hope to start with good friendship and possible relationship .if interested can talk on wechat 13164722615. I m real and not for ga
Loday
49 • Zhongshan, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 35 - 46
Lodayday
Life is a long continuous lesson. You make choices base on what you have learned from your past. I choose to be happy and not let small things turn into big problems. I tend to be Positive and I like to smile. Dislike people who are rude. I am considered to be polite, moral, high valued and educated person. I don’t discriminate because I understand life isn’t fair. Good people bring you happiness. Bad people gives you lesson and the best people gives you memories.
Eddie
43 • Weifang, Shandong, China
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Heart wants what a heart wants.
I am an educated guy with international exposure and liberal values. I am economic policy analyst and researcher by profession. Ive spent most of life in Australia. Ive recently moved to Weifang as a university lecturer at University of Weifang.
ashish
52 • Xi'an, Shaanxi, China
Seeking: Female 20 - 50
A humorous, Kind, educated man with positivity
Michael
44 • Guiyang, Guizhou, China
Seeking: Female 25 - 33
Friendly and Kindly
I am Michael. I am living in China. I am 43. I am so friendly, Kind and gentle, easy-going. I love traveling, swimming, cooking ect. I work for a college in guiyang China. I have been 28 different countries. I can speak good Mandarin , English and Ca
Ranger
63 • Kunshan, Jiangsu, China
Seeking: Female 35 - 57
taking a break, not looking, NOT a member 不是会员
请仔细阅读 PLEASE READ! I CAN'T REPLY TO STANDARD MESSAGES. 我无法回复标准会员 I do not want a translation relationship 我不想要翻译关系 Communication is very important 沟通非常重要 我不会说中文 I don't speak Chinese. My desire is to find a woman that fills my life with joy. It
Mino
61 • Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking: Female 35 - 50
Looking for HER ...
How should I describe myself? Best to be a real Capricorn? The Capricorn is calm and reserved. He places high demands on himself, but also on other people. However, once you have conquered your heart, you can fully count on him. Capricorns set their goals high, they don't do things by halves. Reliable and loyal: A stable partnership is important to the Capricorn man. He himself is the reliability in person and also wants that from his partner. But he's also a buddy who is always there when you need him ....... That's me, by and large ....... but there is a lot more to discover .... .
Justin
55 • Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 29 - 58
The Right Energy Sincerity Only Apply
I came to China alone during 2018 of August. I worked in education and wanted to know more about this world we live in. It was by chance a co-worker said to me in passing, that have I ever thought about teaching abroad? My answer was no, I really never gave it any deep thought before. This begun my investigation, my curiosity into teaching abroad. My passion took over and begun a three-month investigation into working abroad, and my curiosity grew much larger. Not only that, but I'm a curious person and don't listen to others observations of life, I enjoy making my own thoughts and observations and no listen to news or common stereotypes. Furthermore, I am curious as a cat, I guess this is why I enjoy the company of my cats so much. I was divorced after this and came out of a long divorce proceedings which was not pleasant, and I spent a lot of energy to not argue out between lawyers and make it simple for my daughters, but my ex-wife would never listen. I thought I had a good life, a nice house in the country, some land, horses, I helped run an adoption and rescuei center for horses, cars, and I felt a good life. But sadly with my being the primary care taker of my daughters and my ex-wife always gone to work. I didn't pick up on the clues of her very long-lasting betrayal of dating a man at her work for years. I felt my life was destroyed and in the U.S. The man losses a lot, usually with the current laws. Likewise, I was upset of why I was being punished so severely, but she was the one that betrayed. A divorce hurts everyone involved, and my may concern were my daughters. Sometime after putting the pieces of my life back together and the constant games still being played by my ex-wife and my daughters hearts were constantly being hurt. I took my ex-wife to court and had her parent rights stripped away by the courts. I was even awarded money and the courts were going to have my ex-wife pay me, but I didn't want to make anyone suffer like I had, even if I do not like them. This is the background or history before deciding to come to China. I thought I would only come for one year, but I am so fascinated by China, it's people and culture, and of course it's history since I majored and taught and still teach multiple forms of history. I came to China because the cat inside me was very curious and wanted to see more of the world to broaden my life. Now I am here for 6 years and fallen in love with China and the people. I must admit, that I am still lonely, and never felt the true love of someone besides family. My marriage was loveless and not caring sadly I realized, very unemotional and that is hard for me because I am a romantic person full of love. I have dated one Chinese lady and talked to others through WeChat, but many have their own motives. Now I am here even though my work friends see me very happy inside, and I spread happiness to all those around me and my students, I still have a place in my heart that is empty, I'm still searching for one that really knows how to love, does what she says she will do, and will always be at my side together make happy memories together. I'm happy for all those who have found love and when I walk the streets, malls, beach, alone I see so many people holding hands, sitting together when eating, taking pictures together. I want this too with a true individual that just doesn't say they are like this, but shows it in their actions. Words are nice and feel good, but doing something for someone is believing. This is my hope. Until this happens, I will remain looking.
Brett
39 • Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 25 - 40
How many ways are there to misunderstand someone?
I'm an English teacher in Shenzhen (Longgang). I've lived in Shenzhen for more than six years. I understand enough Chinese to get through my daily life, but I can't hold a conversation in Chinese. Fitness and exercise are very important to me, but a series of recent injuries has left me constantly struggling to recover my former strength and confidence.
Mark
43 • Sanya, Hainan, China
Seeking: Female 23 - 40
Canadian Drama Teacher in Shenzhen
Hi I'm Canadian, I lived in 6 countries, now I live in Lingshui near Sanya, China. I'm a drama Teacher. I’m successful at my work. I’m also looking for the opportunity to do trading business overseas. I love singing 🎤 and discovering beautiful nature. I love exploring China and the world. I like to travel and attend big events. I like to go to the Cinema and eat good food. I love to please my lady and make her very happy in bed and outside bed. I love sensual spanking.
Ros
51 • Guangzhou, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 35 - 50
I am looking for a Compatible lady.
I am an old-fashioned romantic man. I like cooking for friends, walking, keeping fit (jogging), yoga, healthy food, cinema, theatre. I am chatty, witty, friendly and with a good sense of humour. LADIES: If you are not willing to show your pictures or move to the next stage with video calls, do not bother me. YOU ARE A SCAMMER 100%. I do not have money and time for you. Only SERIOUS relationship. No hooks up, no one night stand.
mk
41 • Beijing, Beijing, China
Seeking: Female 18 - 99
hello
Hi....thanks for checking out my profile! I'm not sure if this is really the best place for this, but I'm here looking for someone to hopefully connect with and if we are lucky together, start a real relationship with. Of course I'm open to friendship too, but who knows, maybe this actually works and I find my one.
Eric
50 • Putian, Fujian, China
Seeking: Female 25 - 60
True Love and Marriage
Family and marriage first. I like to relax and go for long drives, beach walks, dinning out, traveling, I like sunset and romantic settings. I would like to find a my soulmate and my true love. I hope to find some who is serious about having a family in its ups and downs, in the good and the bad in happy and sad. Some one to grow together for ever I like to go trips, swimming. I like to try new food. I am a kind guy well traveled. I like to learn new things in life like cultures, food, go to new places. I like communication. I love nature and people. Life is what we make of it. I am spontanious, going on long drives and 4wd, swimming in the sea. I like adventures and water activites. I lived in so many places in the world and love to see more of the world. Also, I like snow and cabin with a fireplace.
Marc
46 • Beijing, Beijing, China
Seeking: Female 24 - 40
您好
An American ex-Pat and a Doctor of chiropractic and I specialize and consult on the start up and growth of private clinics. Currently Consulting With Chinese National and Olympic Teams. My Hobbies involve study science and philosophy, weightlifting, cross fit and martial arts. I enjoy good food and drink, great company and conversation and I am a fantastic smartass ;-)
Andi
46 • Huizhou, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Simple things are usually the best
I am from Austria and have a master degree in engineering studies. I am currently living and working mainly in China and hope I have to chance to meet someone special here. I like to travel, I like to do sport like swimming, riding the bicycle, play ping pong. I am very interesting in food, which is part of my travelling, part of my adventure in China and I also enjoy cooking a lot and almost cook on a daily basis. I am also interested in music and at least to a certain extend my job now is related to it. I think simple things are often the best. I like to find happiness in details of life, like to walk around with open eyes as this is what makes life special!
Tony
59 • Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking: Female 28 - 55
VISIT CHINA REGULARLY
Australian guy who travels to China and Vietnam several times a year. I am caring and considerate with a good sense of humour. I feel that I have an understanding of Asian cultures and seek an Asian woman for my future, but happy to have some fun along the way.
Mark
58 • Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 36 - 48
within region interest only
I have been living in Shenzhen since 2009. I teach golf professionally a job which I absolutely love. My life style is healthy I don't smoke I am a clean tidy person. I swim most days and are actively involved in a variety of sports. When I get the chance I love to scuba dive. Walking through a nice park or on a beautiful beach is something I enjoy. I like all kinds of food and restaurants, you name it I've eaten it. I eat good healthy food 90% of the time. Reading, watching a movie, listening to music or swimming are the main things I do to relax. Traveling has always interested me so it would be nice to share this with someone special. I like to be around positive people. My daily goal in life is to try and stay positive and bring the best out in people whether they are a friend or complete stranger. Most of the things that I have written about myself anyone can see. However to get to know someones true personality takes time. It's important for a relationship to develop over time.
Krassen
43 • Guangzhou, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 18 - 39
Solve the riddle below
I am a professional educator, as well as a trader. I enjoy playing chess, swimming, traveling and any kind of intellectually challenging activities. I consider myself a citizen of the world and hope you will be a fun person who can share traveling and interesting conversations with me. I hope to find friends on this website, and maybe a potential life partner if I'm really lucky 
Douglas
62 • Anqing, Anhui, China
Seeking: Female 30 - 40
looking for love
easy going, sense of humor and adventure, open minded. I am not looking for a girlfriend. I am looking for my best friend, lover, soulmate. I play no games so, don't play games with me.Don't say you are ok with my age if you don't mean it. Also, I am not a bank. I don't mind helping at some point in our relationship but, before we even meet in person or before we get to know each other? I won't waste your time. I will come and meet you. If all works well between us then a wedding? I won't need forever to decide. What do you think? I teach English in China. I will come to see you in person. Soon. I have met many women here with many needs, Food, Clothing, Medicine, Money, Phones, loads and more. If we haven't met in person and are having a relationship with each other then DON"T ASK!!!! DON"T WASTE MY TIME WITH THOSE QUESTIONS!!!!
Samuel
50 • Chengdu, Sichuan, China
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Let’s get to know each other.
I’m the kind of person who knows how to get things done.I’m passionate, honest and diligent, I pay attention to things and people around me ,when I see something that’s needs improvement, or a way to streamline an existing process, I speak up and suggest my ideas.
Val
43 • Guangzhou, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 35 - 49
World Travelled (163 nations) living in Guangzhou
Hemingway’s rarest man per my friends … I am an Open book. Ask me anything. World traveled to 163 countries with a wide range of life experiences and amazing skill sets that include Engineer (career), ranch owner with fish ponds, master gardener, chef trained in Paris Le Cordon Bleu, Sommelier, masseur, and much more (ask). Author of books of a very controversial Spiritual nature (ask me) I’m a Libra (Soul, Inner Self) with Leo Rising (Ego, Outer Self) and Virgo Moon (Emotions) & Scorpio in Mercury (Mind) & watch out … Scorpio in Venus ❤️ (Love). Looking for: Beautiful ARIES (my opposite), Leo, Libra, Aquarius, Scorpio … Please be passionate about Life … I’m ready to meet my match!
Jerome
52 • Shenyang, Liaoning, China
Seeking: Female 30 - 47
looking for a life partner
English teacher living in northeast China Hunnan District of Shenyang Without Family on Earth; l know just how precious the concept of "Family" is within.all societies on.Earth. l search for my future partner in life. We chat ID oldlodgechief529
Lance
39 • Zhengzhou, Henan, China
Seeking: Female
make our own life.
single, plan to have a family of my own soon. With multicultural experience during education and working in different countries. unique positive life value emerged under this circumstance, make my choice is a bit different but correct in life
KARL
44 • Ningbo, Zhejiang, China
Seeking: Female 25 - 35
ARE YOU THE ONE? 
I am looking for something serious and trusting... If you are looking for a 'simp' then I am not the one for you... 

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