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卡特林
59 Jingjiang, Jiangsu, China
Seeking: Female 40 - 60
Marital Status: Divorced
I am a Free, Single, and LONELY man, living and working now in Jiangsu province, Jingjiang city; Are you able to hold me warmly in your arms, ha, ha?😊 A kindly warning here from the beginning, I am ''老老虎" in China, over 14 years; please don't try play wrong games, I am not a stupid or naively man, I also can smell from beginning if you are a scammer. I will reply only to those ladies which really and seriously interested in me, not time to waste each other. Please be patiently to read carefully my profile before contacting me; I know is a long profile, but there is a meaning hidden for such long, hope you able to find it😀 I am looking for truly LOVE and New Life Challenges . . . / It is Never too late . . . Other my / your description - to be mutual discovered 😊. I think if here our profiles are well and sincerely defined could reflect our real description . I could say now for example I am family oriented, good man, cooking, gentleman, romantic, many talents and hobbies and bla-bla-bla as per your preferences, BUT . . . is any meaning without confirmation? it is NOT as per my life experience😀. Now I have 18 months here experience talking with some nice ladies, and I feel the need to revise little bit my profile to make things more simply and clarified.... Revised profile at 01.06.24: 1 - You say , I say ''I can cook for you delicious food, bla-bla-bla....'' , sound interesting but important is WHAT we cook one each other, and HOW we cook each other; if you offer me ''delicious'' pizza and me offer to you ''delicious '' noodles, our common kitchen ''will be on fire'' 😁😂; so life in kitchen must be OF GOOD QUALITY 😊 I challenge you in our kitchen. (I am very agree is preferred to eat outside as often possible, but . . . , the most ‘’delicious meal’’ is HOME, lovers cooking together, enjoy as a family, 对不对) 2 - You say, I say ''we will be romantic and make love with passion, hand in hand, kiss you, bla-bla-bla...''., sound interesting but if you are very ''traditional Chinese'' and not able to adapt to and encounter ''western advanced secrets of love'', our bedroom life will be dead , we will go to bed in the evening already bored, wake up in the morning already tired. So, life in bedroom must be OF GOOD QUALITY. You please challenge me in our bedroom 😊 3 - Without good life quality in kitchen, and in bedroom how to go happy to do our job next day? Without good performance and hard work at our job how to assure our salary, pension, financial stability? Without such stability ''you as a woman cannot accept a man'' and seems no happiness in the family or around relationship. I realized that relationship / marriage is in fact a business affair, same as market and investments - what we can offer, what we can get it; the rule is simple: you love me / I love you; you respect me / I respect you; you trust me / I, trust you; etc; ... and there is one important ingredient for happy marriage - TOLERANCE and TRUSTNESS and SUPPORT one each other, there is no perfect woman or perfect man in this world. And one more thing and the last - sense of humor is essentially in a harmony couple life. I want a woman smiling around me; Unfortunately, some ladies trying in their approach with a foreigner only to get access to his assets but not a truly valuable love; please look in the mirror and if you are such kind of lady stay very far from me. I am looking only for a lady which we can take care one each other in all respects, not . . . only use each other. 4 - Hobbies, we all have it, but we do really practicing, we really doing or is just a wish in our mind, or we . . . did it last few years 😁😁. I refer here mostly at doing exercise aspect; This is part of keeping us in good shape and healthy. By the way, a healthy diet is important for me as well. 5 - Appearance - why so many ladies use photo shop or video software to cosmetic their appearance? One wise Chinese saying said - ''hey man, take your new lady into swimming pool firstly, there, all her face ''decoration'' and her body will be revealed to you as true; similar about men probably; so, if we try lie our counterpart in fact, we lie ourselves 6 –You say ‘’Willing to relocate to another country’’, but I noted almost all women I met here are so "lazy" or "very traditionally in mentality" to move from their city to visit my city😂. I think is enough for me I come in your country, maybe is your turn to come in my city if you really interested to know one each other. To settle down in your city could be one option in future; Momentary our current job will determine being together on daily basis; I do not really encourage ‘’long distance relationship’’, except if is some ‘’extraordinary and worthy and long term relationship ”; I do not plan to spend all my life on this platform . . . 7-My new requirement for June 2024 year - you must convince me that no matter your age and education you are a MATURE woman. Mature in your judgment and ACTION, . . .not only mature body 😂 Now my short Western philosophy is over, quite long but hope to be considered as a useful exchange with Chinese culture 😊 I apologies if caused inconvenience for some ladies here, but my entries here are based on what situations I encountered here so far; Waiting from you, maybe you are my lucky star 🌟 . . .
Justin
55 Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 29 - 58
Marital Status: Divorced
I came to China alone during 2018 of August. I worked in education and wanted to know more about this world we live in. It was by chance a co-worker said to me in passing, that have I ever thought about teaching abroad? My answer was no, I really never gave it any deep thought before. This begun my investigation, my curiosity into teaching abroad. My passion took over and begun a three-month investigation into working abroad, and my curiosity grew much larger. Not only that, but I'm a curious person and don't listen to others observations of life, I enjoy making my own thoughts and observations and no listen to news or common stereotypes. Furthermore, I am curious as a cat, I guess this is why I enjoy the company of my cats so much. I was divorced after this and came out of a long divorce proceedings which was not pleasant, and I spent a lot of energy to not argue out between lawyers and make it simple for my daughters, but my ex-wife would never listen. I thought I had a good life, a nice house in the country, some land, horses, I helped run an adoption and rescue center for horses, cars, and I felt a good life. But sadly with my being the primary care taker of my daughters and my ex-wife always gone to work. I didn't pick up on the clues of her very long-lasting betrayal of dating a man at her work for years. I felt my life was destroyed and in the U.S. The man losses a lot, usually with the current laws. Likewise, I was upset of why I was being punished so severely, but she was the one that betrayed. A divorce hurts everyone involved, and my may concern were my daughters. Sometime after putting the pieces of my life back together and the constant games still being played by my ex-wife and my daughters hearts were constantly being hurt. I took my ex-wife to court and had her parent rights stripped away by the courts. I was even awarded money and the courts were going to have my ex-wife pay me, but I didn't want to make anyone suffer like I had, even if I do not like them. This is the background or history before deciding to come to China. I thought I would only come for one year, but I am so fascinated by China, it's people and culture, and of course it's history since I majored and taught and still teach multiple forms of history. I came to China because the cat inside me was very curious and wanted to see more of the world to broaden my life. Now I am here for 6 years and fallen in love with China and the people. I must admit, that I am still lonely, and never felt the true love of someone besides family. My marriage was loveless and not caring sadly I realized, very unemotional and that is hard for me because I am a romantic person full of love. I have dated one Chinese lady and talked to others through WeChat, but many have their own motives. Now I am here even thought my work friends see me very happy inside, and I spread happiness to all those around me and my students, I still have a place in my heart that is empty, I'm still searching for one that really knows how to love, does what she says she will do, and will always be at my side together make happy memories together. I'm happy for all those who have found love and when I walk the streets, malls, beach, alone I see so many people holding hands, sitting together when eating, taking pictures together. I want this too with a true individual that just doesn't say they are like this, but shows it in their actions. Words are nice and feel good, but doing something for someone is believing. This is my hope. Until this happens, I will remain looking.
Marcelo
52 Zhengzhou, Henan, China
Seeking: Female 20 - 36
Marital Status: Divorced
I am a MAN, and that means I have all the characters of a man. Ha! ha! – I like to compete, I like to be strong and conquer, to defeat challenges and to be the protector of my family. I believe MAN should take action – that is why is probably why it is me sending you a message and not the other way around. Also I fell very attracted to beautiful girls who are feminine and do girly (and silly) things, they don’t try to take our places and enjoy the company of man who can protect her… As a man, even as imperfect one (soulmate does NOT exist, no one is perfect – haha sorry to crush your illusions !) I did give everything to my woman, I loved her, gave her 2 beautiful boys, we had house together that we were trying to turn into a home (sweet home) but one day out of the blue she decides to throw that up, SHE BURNED ME PRETTY BAD. She was the one who decide for a divorce, and I was the one who looses everything, I lost her (my wife), I lost my boys, I lost my home, I lost all my hopes in humanity – She is now married to man she kissed when she was married to me (and I did forgave her) Now that everything was in the past (+-10 years ago), I looked back and feel like an IDIOT. Perhaps it is harder for me trust again like it once was…. So be patience with me. I rebuilt my life. I travel the world again, at this time in Asia (before it was in USA and Canada) I am in China now,… In general is the nature of a man is to seek for beauty and pleasure, and the nature of a woman is to seek stability and security (that is in general, ok ?? – I am not denying the statistics here), So, I don’t blame you for checking for those things before marrying me. On the other hand please don’t blame me for seeking a cute girl – and yes if I am with you it means I did find you CUTE. Otherwise I would never ask you out. But I would never move things to the next level if I don’t see high standard qualities in you (the same is valid for me). For example: I am saving physical Intimacy for marriage, so, I am looking for a girl who is doing the same, THAT IS FAIR – RIGHT ?? Also I don’t have tattoos in my body, never smoke or drink (alcohol, beer, …) in my life (and more things like that…) By the time we would be marry, perhaps a few years together you can be sure I do love you, I would be crazy for you, there will be no reason for you to be jealous (so please don’t act jealous – that is just a lack of trust and it will destroy the relationship – by the way if you cannot trust me, please don’t marry me). Gradually maturity will take place, but you have nothing to worry about, we probably started dating because I was attracted by your beauty, but now I love you completely. The same goes for you, probably you would not have all our dream fulfill or I am not the richest guy in the world, BUT we love each other, and you would never leave me as neither I will. Certainly there are things money simply can NOT buy, and when we die, for sure will not take it with us, but perhaps we can preserve our family bonds as we found in Mathew 16:19 “…and whatsoever thou shalt bind on earth shall be bound in heaven.” - this is priceless, and I need a girl who can qualify for that. Now you know my secret…, that is WHY I want a special girl - who can qualify for such a blessing (to be bound with me in heaven – that is not a joke. Ha ha ha !!), that is why also I am doing my best to keep all the Lords commandments, to qualify as well. This video will explain this: Two Apostles Lead a Virtual Tour of the Rome Italy Temple https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dhWgPwEQQ98 If I don’t find this person, I see no need to marry again…( Ha ha ha !). My life as a single person is very good, I am just considering it can be much better with the RIGHT person, I hope you answer me when I message you… If nothing less, we can still be good friends I am trying to have a online business, so I could live anywhere in the world - "mgameirollc.uteach.io"
Gavin-Hawk
45 Shenzhen, Guangdong, China
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Marital Status: Divorced
INTJ Skyp: gavin.hawk at outlook dot com I am a decent, kind, sincere and attentive person with universal values, who rejects hypocrisy and fraud, I respect differentiation and have a deep understanding of cultural differences, and I am here for a soul mate who is willing to immigrate to live overseas or is living overseas. Personality produces charm, charm produces love. Commonality produces trust, trust produces marriage. Long-term relationships need to balance personality and commonality, and new personalities need to be constantly learned to hedge against the erosion of commonality. Unfortunately, the vast majority of people do not know this basic logic. Give to make you feel happy, let you feel the real meaning of life. Taking makes you nervous and anxious, makes you complain about the injustices of life and hostility and resentment toward others. You have the right and freedom to choose to be a giver or a taker, but you choose a different life that only gives you a strong feeling. The vast majority of people combine the dual roles of the taker and the giver, but the difference in role weights also gives you the strong results described above. The consistency of our understanding of these two basic logics is a prerequisite for us to begin a long relationship. Thank you for your understanding. I have been an executive at one of the world's top 500 companies for 10 years and am currently starting my own business in areas such as software/product/brand development and design, as well as Internet marketing. At present, it is the second stage of my career, is the personality career stage, although full of uncertainty, but I always actively, calmly, agile to deal with. I am a righteous, kind, sincere, caring person, I respect and care for others, I respect differentiation, regardless of age, color, race, religion, history, etc. I seek the perfect blend of freedom and law and the light of hope that comes with it. I firmly believe that evil people full of lies and hatred will eventually be kicked into hell. At the same time warn any criminals who try to cheat here: If you try to get me into trouble, I will make you very troublesome, you are not my opponent. I ended my marriage in 2015 and have been single, sometimes with my parents. The root cause of divorce is the difference in values, and there is no one right or wrong because it has a lot to do with growth, education, occupation, personal accomplishment, etc. Many times, the environment can make people mediocre and ignorant. I have universal values that stem from humanity, so I can consider moving to another environment that more suits my values to cherish every second of my life. I am sensitive to art, especially music, I like blues, jazz, soul music, Chinese folk music, I also have a lot of feelings about visual arts, whether it is dance, photography, fashion, commercial graphic design. In particular, I hope that more people can experience the beauty of human society from art. I took some time to think about and present the above statement, and I am responsible for the authenticity of the content. I believe my words can help you build my outline, I hope to be able to read the surface semantics and deep meaning of the lady, if I do not make you feel annoying, please contact me directly, I hope to have a year to communicate and understand each other. If all goes according to hope, I'll start over right away.
云端路上
50 Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking: Female 35 - 48
Marital Status: Divorced
Jian
50 Hangzhou, Zhejiang, China
Seeking: Female 27 - 40
Marital Status: Divorced
Hi there, great to meet you! Let me give you a little rundown of myself. I'm a total ray of sunshine with an optimal outlook on life and a grounded, Steady personality. I'm always curtious about the world around me and love to explore new things. I'm not a smoker, but I. do indulge in a drink or two from time to time, and I make it a point to hit the gym and go for runs for about six months out of The year. When I'm not working or exercising, you can find me pursuing a wide range of hobbies, like traveling, reading, cookies, playing guitar, singing, playing Go, and of course, spending time with my family. I'm also a bit of a language nut and have been working on my spoken English skills for a few years now. With some effort, I think I could score a 4-6 on the IELTS test. I've also dabbled in Japanese. When it comes to religion, I consider myself an diagnostic, but over the past decade or so, I've developed a keen interest in philosophy, history, science, and religious thought, particularly Christian thought. I work for a media and do some finance trading on the side (which is pretty much my second job!) . I have a lovingly daughter who was born in 2009, and she's got a fantastic temperament and personality. I'm hoping she can be your new BFF. In terms of memorable moments, here are a few: In elementary school, a classmate owed me 5 yuan and actually sold a chicken to repay the debt. I admit: I participated too. In middle school, I spent the whole summer at home playing Go, causing an old man with heart Disease downstairs to knock on my door and ask why I was frying beans on the floor all day. I am a karaoke addict: most of the time in KTV, I am hogging the microphone. Japanese and Taiwanese people are very friendly and will take 20-30 minutes to take you to where you want to go. La Jolla Cove beach in San Diego, USA made me feel like humans and nature were one, with sea lions everywhere. Learning languages is very interesting, and it allows me to communicate with people from different countries and cultures. Guitar music is very farming. I live in the present because The future is unknown. Hi, I'm glad to meet you here. I'm a sunny and optimistic person, and I'm a curious person about the world. I don't smoke, I drink alcohol occasionally. Take part in a fitness run half a year. I am also a language lover and have learned English spoken over the years. IELTS 4-6 may try to get there, run or travel needs it. He also learned to speak Japanese. The religious belief section is currently agnostic and has been increasingly involved and interested in the history of philosophy history science religious thought over the past decade, particularly Christian thought. I work in a media. I do some financial transactions in my spare time (semi-professional)! I have a daughter (born in 2009) who has a good temper and wants to be your good friend. A little bit of memory: \N, elementary school, students owe me $5 and steal the chicken and pay back. I admit: I am involved. \N2 Secondary school: To learn Go, play the chess at home for the whole summer vacation, causing the old-fashioned woman who has heart problems downstairs to knock on the door and ask: Why fry beans all day? \N3, Maeba: Most of the time in KTV, I'm playing the microphone. \N4 The Japanese Taiwanese are very friendly. It takes about 20 or 30 minutes to get you where you are. \N5, LA JOLLA COVE Beach in San Diego, USA really made me feel like people are in one place with the sea lions at my fingertips. \N6 Learning the language is fun and can communicate with people from different countries and cultures. \N7, guitar music is fascinating 8, live in the present, the future unknown
Chat萧岚若风
38 Fuzhou, Fujian, China
Seeking: Female 20 - 31
Marital Status: Divorced
The woman, to believe that the warm and beautiful, and confidence, dignity, and strength of these old words. Do not depraved, vanities and confused, the Redeemer himself, hurt others. Do not agree with those who have disguised core and alternative. They are not things you can do to find out its own laissez-faire have nothing to do. The real core of the heart. You have to have a strong heart. To be at the mercy of the passage of time, do not grind fold and yield convictions. To make love to life. The youthful so short, not to sigh. To occasionally ask themselves, they are why. The grief and sorrow, and 嚎. After washing the face cried, clapping his face, and squeeze out a smile to themselves. Do not rub, otherwise the next morning to the eyes. Give yourself a brighter future and goals. It will be recalled that often looked up to the sky. Remember when the sky will also look at the feet. At no time will any person asked you, there are a number of love, the answer is two times. One is that he loved me, and I do not love him. Once I love him, he does not love me. Good love forever in the next. Don't give the same two men hurt you. Don't believe the oath. The alias value of virginity, but remain pure. Don't easily say "love". Don't take offense base really love. A man for practicing their own to delight you, never so deeply moved. The cigarette burn on him, the next one will be hot on you. Take a look at a man's friends, noting that his friends to the woman's attitude. Also, do not believe that one is not prepared to introduce you to his friends circle of men. Do not believe in love with the people. You don't have to break up with the evil words. The lessons learned, but do not regret it. I regret is useless. The country dry and photos, letters, and Journal of such a kind of 三 love drama before it was dry. Believe In Love. I believe there are good men, unmarried, also in the expanse of the sea, looking for you. The fact that "man is not a good thing", which makes people think that you subscribe to countless people. To protect yourself, do remember. For some of us, you don't have to cherish, but for their families, you are precious. Do you know, love, sorrow, want to go home, to give me a call, to talk to people that do not lay in his heart. To know that you do not lack of love, so we are in. In the mirror, be sure to smile and say to myself, I am very cute. To campaign, to health, not lazy, non-smoking. Do not sleep late nights. Love the material properly. Always be aware of the Spirit are even more important. More than those of the table, designer, fashion, more beautiful are your own. Piety of heart, but have their own ideas. Do not blind obedience, everything is exactly how you would like to ask themselves. There are ideas to cried out. Read philosophy, science, psychology, do you think that some of the tedious book. Know the basic rules and common sense. More listening to good music. Promising movies and pictures. The Art of love, but not in the art of their own. Do not despise the working people. Do not be ashamed of labor. The land is not dirty, it is easy to smell of sweat smell. Please respect those who seem to be living conditions worse than you, because it is the respect for themselves. Always be sympathetic to those living on the ground floor. Do not underestimate the money. May wish to earn earned. Pocket Money, don't deny any a beggar. We are not alms to a beggar, a charity for more than we need. The camouflage of beggars, also at the begging of the Beggar's mood. More than happy to take. No matter how tired, on the bus to the elderly and pregnant women have. My friends hurt, do not doubt the friendship, but beware of betraying you. Excuse me, but are not forgotten. Life is a naive child, keep in mind that some reasonable sense. To be happy, to be cheerful, to tough, to warm. This is the character.

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