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Joseph
55 Beijing, Beijing, China
Seeking: Female 45 - 55
Smoke: Don't smoke
Hello. Please, please, please read my whole profile. First, some things that will hopefully save us time. 1. Please only contact me if you live either in Beijing city or within an hour or one and a half hour high speed train ride of Beijing city. I am tired of traveling longer distances than one and a half hours from Beijing. 2. Please only contact me if you can speak at least somewhat proficient English. Yes, I am willing to learn more Chinese. But communication is one of the most important things in a relationship. It is very difficult if both people don't speak any of the languages. 3. If you have grown children (high school or older) that is great. If you don't have children and want children please don't contact me. I don't want children. I am too old. 4. Yes, I would eventually like to get married. However, I am not in any hurry. We would need to live together first if we really liked each other. I know that is probably a cultural difference, but i feel strongly about this. 5. Yes, I make a good salary as a foreign English teacher, but I am NOT anyone's "Sugar Daddy." If we become involved in a relationship, I will expect you to contribute at least some money for living expenses, traveling, etc. Okay, if you are okay with these parameters, please read on. Sorry, but time goes fast. This is all to just save us both time. I have been living in Beijing for a little more than one year (Haidian district). I seek companionship and a serious relationship within time. No, I am not here for "one night stands." Long term friend/girlfriend and intimate partner would be great. I will be very nice to you, have a good time, share some laughs, maybe travel together, provide a shoulder to cry on if you need one, offer advice, and please your mind, body and spirit. I believe in nurturing the mind, body and soul. For me, I nurture my mind by revising my teaching strategies on a regular basis in a very challenging environment, read books, enjoy interesting conversation and learning new things. To nurture my body I enjoy riding my bicycle, hiking in the mountains and sometimes going to the fitness center. I also want to start doing yoga again. To nurture my soul I enjoy listening to music, playing music (drums), seeing live music, writing, visiting art museums, theatre, etc. No, we don't have to have all of the same interests, or even many of the same interests, but we need to have at least some of the same interests. Thank you.
Justin
55 Shanghai, Shanghai, China
Seeking: Female 29 - 58
Smoke: Don't smoke
Update: Moving to Shanghai This summer for work from Shanxi. I came to China alone during 2018 of August. I worked in education and wanted to know more about this world we live in. It was by chance a co-worker said to me in passing, that have I ever thought about teaching abroad? My answer was no, I really never gave it any deep thought before. This begun my investigation, my curiosity into teaching abroad. My passion took over and begun a three-month investigation into working abroad, and my curiosity grew much larger. Not only that, but I'm a curious person and don't listen to others observations of life, I enjoy making my own thoughts and observations and no listen to news or common stereotypes. Furthermore, I am curious as a cat, I guess this is why I enjoy the company of my cats so much. I was divorced after this and came out of a long divorce proceedings which was not pleasant, and I spent a lot of energy to not argue out between lawyers and make it simple for my daughters, but my ex-wife would never listen. I thought I had a good life, a nice house in the country, some land, horses, I helped run an adoption and rescuei center for horses, cars, and I felt a good life. But sadly with my being the primary care taker of my daughters and my ex-wife always gone to work. I didn't pick up on the clues of her very long-lasting betrayal of dating a man at her work for years. I felt my life was destroyed and in the U.S. The man losses a lot, usually with the current laws. Likewise, I was upset of why I was being punished so severely, but she was the one that betrayed. A divorce hurts everyone involved, and my may concern were my daughters. Sometime after putting the pieces of my life back together and the constant games still being played by my ex-wife and my daughters hearts were constantly being hurt. I took my ex-wife to court and had her parent rights stripped away by the courts. I was even awarded money and the courts were going to have my ex-wife pay me, but I didn't want to make anyone suffer like I had, even if I do not like them. This is the background or history before deciding to come to China. I thought I would only come for one year, but I am so fascinated by China, it's people and culture, and of course it's history since I majored and taught and still teach multiple forms of history. I came to China because the cat inside me was very curious and wanted to see more of the world to broaden my life. Now I am here for 6 years and fallen in love with China and the people. I must admit, that I am still lonely, and never felt the true love of someone besides family. My marriage was loveless and not caring sadly I realized, very unemotional and that is hard for me because I am a romantic person full of love. I have dated one Chinese lady and talked to others through WeChat, but many have their own motives. Now I am here even though my work friends see me very happy inside, and I spread happiness to all those around me and my students, I still have a place in my heart that is empty, I'm still searching for one that really knows how to love, does what she says she will do, and will always be at my side together make happy memories together. I'm happy for all those who have found love and when I walk the streets, malls, beach, alone I see so many people holding hands, sitting together when eating, taking pictures together. I want this too with a true individual that just doesn't say they are like this, but shows it in their actions. Words are nice and feel good, but doing something for someone is believing. This is my hope. Until this happens, I will remain looking.

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