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Keith
Platinum Member
64
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Olympia, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 60
Eye color:
Hazel
Met my wonderful Chinese wife online 20 years ago
My incredible wife has now passed away, and my world is empty. I realize that meeting her online was a miracle, and another miracle is unlikely, but it would be nice to find a pen pal or travel partner, or more, someone who needs me as much as I need her. When I had someone, I loved to travel with her to scenic places for hiking, especially in China, where I have visited about 50 times. I'm not really very interested in the big cities, although I would be happy to visit them with my partner. My photos are recent, one a day old. one a week old, the other a year old.. BTW, if you write or reply, I always keep a browser window open to this site, and stay logged-in, so if it shows that I am online, it doesn't mean that I am here or even awake at the time.
John
Platinum Member
69
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Fremont, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 62
Eye color:
Hazel
Looking for a miracle
I am retired. I worked in the medical field doing legal work, and was also a professional musician. I enjoy cooking and reading and going to the mountains and the ocean. I'm not incredibly talkative, I can be quiet, but I try to be thoughtful.
Matt
Standard Member
49
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South Jordan, Utah, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 40
Eye color:
Hazel
Looking for love, fun, spirited girl t/ wants kids
I am American. I'm a funny, loving, and charismatic person who loves to laugh, smile, play, and tease a little. I love deep. I love being a father. I like staying in and cooking, entertaining, singing, watching movies, going camping, fishing occasionally. I like going out but want a super fun excited person to lead. I would like to build a family and legacy. If you know me I have probably already taught you to have faith in yourself. To look inside yourself and find strength. I will build you up. I will show you true love, and I will conquer. All I ask in return is that you truly love me and my son. There will be a point in the relationship were I fall in love with you. I will get weird for a minute as I question if you love me or not. Then it will be smooth sailing. If I am in I am in. If I see you loose interest I will move on. Some people see the way I love so greatly as a weakness. Know I have that great love because of the trials I have had in my life. I have the strength to fight for what I believe in and walk away from what I don't. Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply give you courage. Be courageous. Fortune favors the bold.
Duan
Standard Member
36
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Eye color:
Hazel
Peaceful spiritual in the moment calm romantic
Curious about all the subjects not taught in school. I enjoy film Rick and Morty fight club Rick euphoria. Porko Rosso, howls moving castle, Totoro, cowboy bebop, ninja scrolls, Akira, sword art online. I read a book everyday I enjoy self development metaphysical topics I enjoy Mr. Donut Having deep conversations Self development seminars Playing PS4 manga I'm an award winning author of the art of the moment. Ā Creation,imagination, financial independence, law of attraction š§² comedy, movies, spiritual,self development, buissnes books š travel philosophy Dreams goals and the consequences of not accomplishing themCurious about all the subjects not taught in school. I enjoy film Rick and Morty fight club Rick euphoria. Porko Rosso, howls moving castle, Totoro, cowboy bebop, ninja scrolls, Akira, sword art online. I read a book everyday I enjoy self development metaphysical topics I enjoy Mr. Donut Having deep conversations Self development seminars Playing PS4 manga I'm an award winning author of the art of the moment. Ā Creation,imagination, financial independence, law of attraction š§² comedy, movies, spiritual,self development, buissnes books š travel philosophy Dreams goals and the consequences of not accomplishing them. Guess what language I can speak a little bit of ē§ć®é»å ±ć®ę„ 1yp ć¾ććÆē§ć®ä½ ss ćØć©ć¤ć³ ćć©ć¹ćÆć³ ć·ććÆć¹ ć·ććÆć¹ ćÆć³ ćć”ć¤ć ćÆć³ ć¼ć ć¼ć ć»ćć³ ćć”ć¤ć ć¹ćæćøćŖ ćøććŖć儽ćć§ć .
Scott
Standard Member
46
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Elgin, Illinois, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 48
Eye color:
Hazel
Love to give
I'm a very responsible and caring person that want to find someone I can take care of. I have a lot of love to give. Kids: Some people are weary of someone with kids. I understand that. However, I can HONESTLY say that my kids are wonderful. I do NOT spoil them. I don't allow them to be brats. I give LOTS of hugs and love, but also plenty of discipline. If you donāt like me just because of the kids, Iāll understand but frankly, I have ALOT of love and attention and affection to give ;)
Frederick
Standard Member
63
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Cheyenne, Wyoming, United States
Seeking:
Female 39 - 50
Eye color:
Hazel
Looking for a kind and loving woman
I am intelligent and attractive with a warm personality. I work hard at my job and I am successful. I love to laugh and have long conversations with the one I care about. I like to explore new places. I would like to share my good life with the right woman!
Samuel
Standard Member
25
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Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 19 - 30
Eye color:
Hazel
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I am studying Japanese, but am interested in learning Chinese as well as other languages. I can also help with English. I like to cook, play videogames, watch anime, and watch live streams. I also like some sports, mostly ice hockey and sometimes bas
Douglas
Standard Member
69
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Waukesha, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 51
Eye color:
Hazel
My best friend, soul mate and life time partner
I am very physically active, and love learning and experiencing life. I want to share my life with a special woman. Perhaps that person is you! I am well educated, and have a very good job here in the United States. I love traveling, go to new places, being active, going out to eat, and having fun on a regular basis. Camping is fun too.
Robert
Standard Member
65
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Chesapeake, Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 50
Eye color:
Hazel
The Virginia Gentleman/Seeking Younger Wife
I want to know the person that I intend to spend the rest of my life with first, not in a rush. I have 2 very young girls 8 and 10 that i need to protect from my dating mistakes Please no games, I know exactly what I want, a tender and true devoted heart. I live on the water and love it, gardening, remodeling my house, romantic dinner for two, weekends away traveling, nights at home cooking dinner together, a movie, tender endless passionate kisses, you being silly, me loving you
Cabot
Standard Member
60
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Melbourne, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 54
Eye color:
Hazel
Good man, updated 13 November 2022
Iām a dedicated, faithful, loyal, hard working and fun person to be with. I enjoy the ocean, water sports and building things. I love to scuba dive and am trying to teach myself the guitar. I love to travel and experience new things and hope to do more of this as well as expand my interests more when I retire in a little less than 3 years.
Scott
Standard Member
Verified
73
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Yuma, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 40 - 58
Eye color:
Hazel
Seeking my Other Half. My Better Half?
I am retired, separated (divorce in progress), with no children in search of my other half, who by default will be my better half because she is a woman. I am on this dating site, because it seems to rank highly for real users truly in search of real relationships. I do not come here for sexual fun, or to play games with people. I know what I hope for and I am here to see if it is possible to find someone who thinks as I do
Stephen
Standard Member
61
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Madison, Wisconsin, United States
Seeking:
Female 36 - 59
Eye color:
Hazel
Praying to find my Soul mate.
Hello, I am a Man that loves our Lord God. A Christian man with Good values and Great Faith. I am a very Friendly, Kind and considered person. I love making people smile,laugh and feel good. I'm a Gentleman who is looking to hold any door and buy Beautiful flowers for a Beautiful woman. I love the outdoors and all outdoors activities. I used to race Superbikes.. I really enjoy snuggling up buy a fire and watching a good movie or watching the Sun set. I'm very much into taking care of my Health and fitness. I enjoy Gravel bike riding, Kayaking, swimming, Camping, hiking, and live music. And so much more. I just Need a Beautiful partner to share the rest of my life with šš .
Peter
Standard Member
Verified
58
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Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 48 - 59
Eye color:
Hazel
Looking for my special one!
I am 59 years old and I live in Florida, USA. I have no children. I love to travel and have visited over 30 countries. I enjoy scuba diving; I am a certified rescue diver (recreational only). I want to connect with someone that we share similar interests and desires in life. We have an interest in building a strong relationship that can lead to marriage.
Johnny
Standard Member
Verified
52
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Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 46
Eye color:
Hazel
Life is better with you!
My dreams of being in a loving relationship with a Ukrainian woman are at your fingertips. I have a friend who is married to a Ukrainian woman. After my divorce, she said I would make a krasunia very happy. I have become more interested in your culture with the crazy invasion. My respect and admiration grew as I found out more about the people and country. A little about me: I am a traveling medical professional. My job allows me to go all over the United States. I love what I do and what it enables me to do. When I donāt work, I am on vacation. I love exploring new places to hike and see natural wonders. Going out to see live music, the culture of the locals, and of course, new foods are all loves of my life. I stay in shape. I go to the gym three times a week and do yoga. I eat healthy and organic. I am a big music fan. The television is not on much, but the music is always on. I am a reader of fiction, non-fiction, and biographies. I like going to movies, trying to dance, going to concerts, hiking, swimming, diving, paddle boarding, kayaking, canoeing, walking hand in hand, snuggling, and laughing. A lot of laughing. I tend to rush things. I am working on that, but you should know. I am not perfect, but I continue to work on myself to be a better person and I may be perfect for you.
Bryan
Standard Member
Verified
53
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Chattanooga, Tennessee, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 55
Eye color:
Hazel
A soulmate with love, truth & adventure for U!...
Hi, Glad to meet you! I'm looking for a woman who I can be great friends with, marry and we can make each other happy the rest of our lives! Some important things about me are that I love God and am very active in my church because God is the foundation of true love, freedom, justice, etc. In Mark 12:30-31, Jesus says that His top principles are love for God and people, truth, purpose and action. In 1 Tim. 4:8 God says: "Godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come." Since I want to experience the best in life, esp. with the woman I love, these are my favorite and I think most important Bible verses. I love and care for all people as creations of God, Truth is crucial because it sets us free (John 8:32), Justice is crucial for safe and thriving societies (Prov. 14:34, 29:7, 31:8,9), etc. I love outdoor adventures/extreme sports (rock climbing, water/snow skiing, jumping off cliffs into water, etc.). I like true stories/movies, reading thought provoking books and discussing them. I like fun, laughter and comedy. I listen to people who have problems and finding ways to help them. I can cook good food, play guitar & sing well. I lived in Asia for 25 years as a teacher, professor and church planter/pastors. I know life has major challenges, but I'm an optimist & realist. I try to focus my thoughts and words on the happy side of life because God said to do this (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Scientists like Dr. Achor who was at Harvard say that this outlook helps people be much more successful in life since brains work 20-30% when people are happy. His talk is here and it's quite valuable, but also funny! https://www.ted.com/talks/shawn_achor_the_happy_secret_to_better_work?language=zh-cn All the best in life and love! Bryan
Jon
Standard Member
41
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Troy, Michigan, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 25
Eye color:
Hazel
Hi I'm Jon
Loving, loyal and down to earth very family oriented but married look for someone to do the things my wife will not of example go out, travel, do boat cruzes ect. If the relationship is genuine I'd like to have a child so you must be open minded and
Jon
Standard Member
Verified
52
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Englewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking:
Female 38 - 46
Eye color:
Hazel
Seeker seeking a soul mate...
Is the glass half empty, half full, or just twice as large as it needs to be? I dislike seeing things in just black and white. I like to measure life not by the breaths I take, but by the moments that take my breath away ā when the volume-knob of lif
Jeridon
Standard Member
37
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Saint Paul, Minnesota, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 25
Eye color:
Hazel
Laugh and the world laughs. Weep and weep alone.
Hello! My name is Jeridon. Routine and discipline are a fine summary for my life. My goal is to be satisfied with my professional and personal accomplishments of each day. I spend my free time exercising, studying, reading, practicing guitar, and time permitting playing games or watching movies. My heritage is African American, German, & French.
Todd
Standard Member
42
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Buffalo, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 42
Eye color:
Hazel
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I'm an open book. I'm terribly honest. If you ask me for sincerity, you will always get it. I often have no idea what my plans are for tomorrow. I eat when I'm hungry. I go to sleep when I'm tired. Nothing about my life is on time. Learning and exploring are very important to me. If I'm at my computer, you're likely to find me on Wikipedia. If I'm not, chances are I'm checking out something new. I love being around people who know more than me about something. Anyone who knows more than me about multiple subjects is guaranteed my full attention. I enjoy things that are heartfelt and meaningful. Far too little moments in life have any meaning; it's our job to add meaning. Whether it's good conversation or simply helping someone out, we have an incredible power to influence others in a positive way and it's our responsibility as human beings to avail ourselves of it. I play a lot of pc games. I run and skate daily and am working on my Mandarin regularly. I tend to get my hands dirty a lot helping friends organize things and volunteering to take on tasks. I tend to be the creative voice and come up with a lot of ideas. I read a lot of biographies. Elon Musk, Trevor Noah, James Comey, Winston Churchill are recents. I also read a lot of books on human origins and our nature (evolution, behavior, personality, communication). My MBTI is INFJ.
Happy
Standard Member
Verified
61
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Lawrenceville, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 38 - 55
Eye color:
Hazel
Looking for True Love
The site will not correct my age.. I am 61. I am an ER Trauma Nurse at the hospital.I am a funny, attractive, outgoing gentleman who is seeking the love of my life. I want a lady to love, travel with, spoil, care for and enjoy life's treasures together. I currently live in Georgia but when I retire in 5 years I am open to going anywhere. I exercise, am not fat, energetic and can say, loved by all who know me. I can always find good in everyone because I am a positive person. I am an old fashioned romantic. I still open doors and pull out chairs, love to hold hands while walking, enjoy a good kiss and always say I love you before walking out the door for work. I am outgoing and can make you laugh!
George
Standard Member
40
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Tallahassee, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 42
Eye color:
Hazel
I hope you like chocolate
I love sports and science and business and family first offcourse. I am open minded and love to work. My business is my hobby and I love to work in sports. I am an investor as well and like to build assets. Besides that I love spending time with loved ones and cant wait to meet a nice woman to love.
Cruz
Standard Member
57
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 50
Eye color:
Hazel
Buscando para amor
Are you That Special Woman (TSW) I want in my life? Well I am looking for That Special Woman (TSW) who wants to be with a special man (In this case me!) I have been off the dating scene for a minute and my friends told me this is the best way to jump
Anthony
Standard Member
47
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New York, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 22 - 36
Eye color:
Hazel
LOVE SPRINKLED with MAGIC
I live in NY. I am kind and giving. Have no time for games. Honest,hard working , great Father. I have room in my heart to share it with someone I'm open and enjoy listening. I enjoy outdoor sports , I love the ocean. Romantic but not a pushover. I do enjoy the company of liars and manipulators. And for the shallow ,hollow woman out there. That just want the good life but expect it and not want to add to building our empire. I'm sorry. Wrong guy. I spoil the ones I love. I'm loyal and have goals. Just like to share myself and my world with someone that enjoys me for me. Not for anything else. The finer things in life come to those who work hard for it. Sharing with someone he/she loves. That's the good part. Myself. I feel that way. And wouldn't expect anything less from whom I'm with. Love is only required without it we would be friends. Which I wouldn't mind but I'm truly looking for a special someone. I hope you know who you are. Cause I do just having found you yet
brian
Standard Member
39
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Birmingham, Alabama, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 36
Eye color:
Hazel
fear nothing
My name is Jacques 205-401-9533Whatsapp is your name? I'm 6'3 hundred eighty pounds, I'm looking for a sexy, fun, loyal trusting,understanding friend and maybe more Who likes candle lit dinners romantic walks on the beach at sunset or sunrise also like hot air balloon rides, my favorite color is black and blue. I also like sports basketball, soccer swimming Football, bowling antique cars watching movies sitting on the couchI like to write poems. 3 wishes. ! If I had 3 wishes do they come true I do not wish for things look Lord had wish for 25 hours in each day which I could spend with you. I would wish for riches or treasure I would wish for 8 days in the week, I could spend with you! I would wish for fame of glory, what 53 weeks in each year wish I could spend with you!!l played American football Dallas Cowboys
Tony
Standard Member
62
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Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 55
Eye color:
Hazel
ROMANTIC, PASSIONATE MAN SEEKS ASIAN WIFE.
I CAN NOT REPLY TO MESSAGES HERE! Write to: paitalian2626@gmail.com ***PLEASE READ MY PROFILE!! I apologize to everyone who messaged me. I CANNOT OPEN YOUR MESSAGES. I would love to message you back or chat, but I have not upgraded my membership and am unable to contact you here I am genuine and I am real. I have a warm, tender heart and want to find a loving, caring, lifeling soulmate to fill it with her live. I want to meet someone... so...I will do everything I can to meet you in person and do all we can to be together forever. I Love beautiful Asian women and sincerely want to find a lady to be my soul mate and be together always holding hands as we walk through life together, forever. I want to.kiss you, hold your hand and hold you in my arms forever every moment we are together. I want to learn about the Chinese culture and will do so because of the love I will have for you and feel the deep passionate love I want you to have for me!!! I am a passionate, loving man that has a great career in healthcare, a former professional athlete and also a successful songwriter with several albums that have been distributed worldwide.. I have been in healthcare for over 30 years. I am successful, hard working, driven, highly educated and classy. I am also humorous, funny and like to laugh and have fun. I treat a woman the way every woman wants to be treated...with respect and love and strength. I am a man who is very passionate and loves showing affection to my lady whether it be in public or private. I love holding hands, cuddling and showing how I feel about my lady the way I want her to do for me. Once I love you, I will love you forever. I will treat you with respect and let you know that you are loved always and protected. I am a classy man and can dress to impress or be casual as well. I love being active and doing things. I love weekend getaways, LOVE the beach, amusement parks, sporting events and concerts. I also love cuddling with my lady, staying home chatting about life and our love and making memories. I look much, much younger than I am. I exercise and keep fit. I am extremely healthy and have no bad habits My age is incorrect on my profile, can't change it..picture is real. I love the thought of holding you close to me as we sleep, waking up with you and spending every moment we possibly can together. When we are apart, I will let you know I miss you and can't wait to be with you and hold you. I LOVE a lady who is elegant, but sexy, classy, but humble. i love a woman who will dress for me and knows I appreciate and love the way she looks. I am very active and love doing many things and love sharing that with my lady. I want to do everything in life together. I am very driven, hardworking and treat my lady like gold. I let her know that she is always secure in my presence and loved and cared for. I have just built a new home and looking for someone to share that with me. I am a man's man, but, tender and loving with my lady. I am looking for my soulmate and want a woman that can give me the love I have always been searching for. PLEASE MESSAGE ME AT: paitalian2626@gmail.com I am sensitive and kind, strong and protective of those I love. I am funny and love to laugh but serious when it calls for it. I always put my lady first and let her know that she is the most important thing in my life. I do not put up with lies or any king of cheating...if that happens even once...it will be over. If you are still married or in a relationship but separated...I am not interested because you could end up reconciling and going back together and I am not going to waste my time for nothing. I am serious about finding someone and not here to play games. *** Update...I am NOT going to upgrade my membership as I previously mentioned...
Dale
Standard Member
60
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Portland, Oregon, United States
Seeking:
Female 21 - 35
Eye color:
Hazel
Exploring Together
I like many kinds of active relaxation as I get bored just sitting around. I have gone thru three passports and traveled around the world many times. Yes I have been to Thailand 4 or 5 times. I have lived in Costa Rica and China, spent time in Russia and The Ukraine. So I have been exposed to many cultures around the world.
Ben
Standard Member
41
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Corpus Christi, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 43
Eye color:
Hazel
Ben Wood
An older man, widowed, live alone, Writ poetry and short stories, like gardening, fishing, Music(listing and dancing) eating out, cooking, theater, Reading, enjoy my cats,I am Catholic, I am Retired Engineer, was in Hong Kong in 1953 for 4 days. Loved all of the Far East,, served in the Navy.
Robert
Standard Member
46
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Renton, Washington, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 43
Eye color:
Hazel
What can I say? I am a really groovy and nice guy
Hello. I am really a super nice guy. I am on this site with the hopes to find a quality girlfriend, lover, soulmate, confidant, partner where we evolve into true soulmates-- and so for the long term. My background is in construction and I have a BS degree in engineering from an accredited college. So I have a grasp into math and science and also building things. Yet I have a high appreciation for the arts and history and anthropology et al. My musical tastes range the whole gamut--Metalica, RHCP's, CSNY, B. Marley, Hendrix, Los Lobos, BigEBig, ACDC et al. I love the outdoors, fishing and hunting, hikes, road trips, outdoor concerts, cooking in or eating out BBQ's year round, action/adventure/sci-fi/thriller movies and tons more of stuff too. Yep!
Louis
Standard Member
57
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Orlando, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Eye color:
Hazel
Hello.š
Nice.sweet guy. Attractive real Christian Male.a good man. Divorced 9yrs.My ex left me for another man not my fault.kids live with mom.Starting over.single again.,gets kinda lonely sometimes,that is the way God made us,right! Looking for Godly woman,conservative,independent thinking..compassionate about life and passionate for her man.for a fantastic,exciting friendship that naturally develops into a very special loving,caring deep loving relationship.and a family. I Like indoors outdoors.Music.Traveling.Eating.cook outs.Gardening,reading,Cooking Com/passionate,kind,humble,caring,gentle,loving man. Waiting for your nice letter. Thank You... The real meaning of true love.."I will love ..until love hurts..then there will be no more hurt from love..there will only be more love."..also a poem about love..."not having love..wanting love..and wanting love that much more...then..later..now having love..not wanting love...but wanting love that much more"...
Patrick
Standard Member
Verified
56
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Asheville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 40
Eye color:
Hazel
Hello š I caught you looking. š¤
No photo and profile description about yourself. Don't send me message. I like to think im really nice. I make friends easily. I have a good attitude on life. I'm the guy that listens to you when your having a hard day. I will hug you and reassure you that everything will be okay. I'm pretty active and work hard. Im in good health. I'm here for you if you are loving, kind, gentle, and most of all faithful. Let's make this work for ever. 1,a 2,b 3,c.. you get it? Ahbh ghh difi
Russ
Standard Member
Verified
53
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Detroit, Michigan, United States
Seeking:
Female 27 - 49
Eye color:
Hazel
Romantic Gentleman
I'm a perfect gentleman with so much Love to give to the right woman. I'm a good man, intelligent, knowledgeable and hardworking. I'm looking for a Special Lady to spend the rest of my life with. I desire a woman who has both inner and outer Beauty. I will treat you right and am a man of my word.
Craig
Standard Member
51
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San Luis Obispo, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 39 - 50
Eye color:
Hazel
slo life
Iām a really wonderful person - just ask me. Iām thoughtful, caring, compassionate, funny, easy-going, generous, ā¦ Did I mention funny? There; now that thatās out of the way: Iām a retired probate and trust lawyer. Well not so much retired as disabled. (Fortunately, Iām more financially secure that I was when I was working.) While surfing in December 2018, I was hit in the head by anotherās surfboard and drowned. I was given CPR and resuscitated, but woke 6 days later with a C4-5 spinal fusion and a prognosis that I may never walk again. Iām very fortunate that the prognosis was incorrect - my spinal injury is not ācompleteā (like Christopher Reeveās was). It is āincomplete,ā which means I have use and control of my body, but the nerve damage was substantial and is slow to recover. I will always have noticeable effects and limitations, but I continue to make slow progress. I have always been an optimist and consider the glass half full. I often say, āIt is what it is.ā (If you know the fable about the White Horse, kudos to you.) For the first year I used a wheelchair, but I threw that aside (figuratively) as soon as I got use of my legs back. For the last almost 2 years now I have used a walker - though Iām really really slow, and it appears that I will need to use a walker for a long long time to come. I fight each day to make a little more progress, which is truly by the millimeter. What is most challenging is that I have limited functional use of my hands, but I continue occupational therapy and make slow progress there too. If you are still reading, you are either really bored or you otherwise have a soft spot in your heart for the crippled guy - a person who takes in strays. I grew up in Southern California. I got out of there as soon as they started putting in toll roads. I took a āvow of povertyā to stay in San Luis Obispo - where I have lived for the last 25 years, and have never regretted it for a moment. Before my accident, I was very active - always go-go-go: surfing, golfing, snowboarding, baseball and softball, backpacking and camping and hiking, travel, etc. Since my accident, well, ā¦ my world has gotten pretty small. Covid mirrored that as everybodyās world seemed to shrink by sheltering in place. I have a host of friends and a wonderful support group. I keep busy teaching law school online and working with other attorneys and former clients. I have always considered my lifeās purpose - be it work or otherwise, to be helpful to others. My personal goal for as long as I can remember, though I have obviously fallen way way short, has been to try and help someone each day - but they cannot find out about it; if anybody finds out about it, it doesnāt count. (So I canāt tell you about the times when I did a good deed because then you would know and then it wouldnāt count.) I love binge watching Game of Thrones and Shameless. If you get Shameless, you get me. It is said that sarcasm is the lowest form of wit. If so, I am witless. I see humor in everything. (If you donāt learn to laugh at yourself, you will miss the greatest joke in your own generation.) I always laugh and am exceedingly slow to anger. I am very much a ālive and let liveā kind of person. I do not watch the news, and I do not talk politics - even with people who agree. I consider myself Libertarian in many areas and think government is too big. There; thatās enough of that! I do not drink. I stopped many years ago because it was ruining my life. I hang out with lots of other people who donāt drink anymore either. It is a very fulfilling life and gives me great purpose to be helpful to others. But I of course absolutely do not mind at all others partaking - be it wine with dinner or letting loose on the weekend. I enjoy cigars and consider myself an aficionado. To one who does not smoke cigars, it is not enjoyable to be sure. But their development and creation is akin to winemaking; the various blends for a developed pallet are noticeably remarkable. And I gotta have my coffee. I have no children of my own but am now adopting (adult adoption) my 26-year-old stepdaughter who is truly the most amazing person I have ever known. The adoption will be completed in November 2021, and I will thereafter finalize my divorce. My (soon to be ex) wife was incredibly supportive during all of my accident and recovery. But it turned out that she, unbeknownst to me, had āleftā our then-15 year marriage in 2017 -- a year before my accident. (Details intentionally omitted.) So what does the future hold? Who knows? I would think most people in the end want the same thing: a wonderfully compatible companion to share lifeās ups and downs - - with emphasis placed on ācompatibleā and even more emphasis placed on āwonderful.ā I donāt know if it is āunfortunateā (reference White Horse story) or not, but my future apparently does not include a lot of surfing, golfing, snowboarding, baseball and softball, backpacking and hiking, etc. It looks like for the remainder of my life I am relegated to being a spectator. So it looks like if I find that āwonderfully compatible companion,ā it will be someone for whom these activities are not on the top of their to-do list, or at least with me keeping up. Fortunately though, travel can be a spectator sport, and so that is where I am putting a lot of my focus and energy. Well, that and I plan to learn to scuba dive. I have countless friends and acquaintances and am not looking for online chatting and correspondence. Iām not looking to casually date. Nor do I have a āneedā to find a LTR. But I figured āwhat the hellā, I might as well look online and maybe - just maybe, there is some incredibly wonderfully compatible person out there at this moment. Someone who makes me want to drop everything and go to the ends of the earth to be with them and want to stay with them always; someone with whom Iām destined to share lifeās ups and downs, whether that be here in California or wherever she lives - or maybe even in a bungalow in Costa Rica or Kauai? One never knows :-)
Ernie
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Moscow, Idaho, United States
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Female 40 - 55
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Cute, affectionate and caring. I have principles I live by and I'm protective of my loved ones. I love to laugh and I cherish romance. Love to cook, and cuddle. I'm romantic and passionate, you might say adventurous. I really like to keep the fire warm. I like my lady in lace and sexy lingerie just for me. I enjoy having fun and not shy about being naughty with my lady. I dream to travel more with you so we can explore the beautiful places and each other for the longest time. ā¤ Don't like drama and I'm easy to get along with. š
Dennis
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Beaumont, Texas, United States
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Female 30 - 50
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Hazel
The Passionate One
I am very sorry I did not write this when I first signed up. You may have believed I was ready right now, to visit China. Unfortunately I am not ready. I do not want to begin an email correspondence until I am close to being able to leave. I believe you want the same. There is business for me to do before I think of traveling or visiting. 1] I have to sell my home. 2] I am in search of a great location of where to live. It may not be here in the U.S.
Duane
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Auburn, Maine, United States
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Female 42 - 44
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Hazel
Kind, attentive, caring man looking for a wife.
Physically I am healthy, fit, active, and agile. I have a lot of empathy, am kind, patient, romantic. I would like to talk about my arrest so that you do not have to ask. I was arrested, but once the facts were discovered I was released. If we form a bond and you wish, I will let you talk to this person to verify the truth and my temperament. I do respect women and abhor the use of violence used against any person you love. Needless to say, I lost face due to this. All I can do is be honest and move forward with my life. I am serious about finding a wife and disclosing this is necessary for visa process, no matter how painful and inconvient it proves to be. If you message me, please mention that you read my profile fully and I will know you at least understand. I do have Wechat.
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