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Darrell
79 Seattle, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 36 - 56
Appearance: Average
I'm an ordinary man who has lived well, traveled to many countries, and had some extraordinary experiences. I'm @ peace with myself, worked hard, and loved being a builder. At home, in my cabinet shop, or in the garden are my favorite places depending on the weather. Now, here are a few more things you should know about me, married once, and have been single since 1981, raising my two children from ages 3 & 5 as a single dad, and loved it!! Until my kids were out of high school I stayed single giving myself to them happily. After they left for college I had time for the ladies. Post-retirement @ 62 I started sailing, bought a 40ft. (12.12m) Catamaran, taunted myself to sail, and opened a charter service in the Caribbean. Ran it for 8 years and had a blast. I would dress up as a pirate, eye patch and all do the arrrr-matey with a growl in my voice and laugh. Taunt guests to scuba and sail (a bit) if they want to learn. I was in the Navy Special Forces as a kid (Navy Seal). (A lot more to that story), I love to read and learn something new every day. To top it off I have 8 sisters so I have no problem talking or understanding ladies, listening, compromising, being compassionate, and respectful, and letting them know they are safe with me. Protect and provide, no princes please, but honor them. Learn from each other. Keep your word. There is more but I don't know you well enough yet, we will see where life leads. This is a glimpse into my life, there is so much more, and if we are lucky we will have lots of time and learn each other's ways. But the most important is to find someone special to be tender with & hold dear to your heart, and so it goes.
Asif
57 Portland, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Appearance: Average
We *usually* have the freedom to take on or accept hardship, commit to resolve the hardship, and attain security. Happiness is a side-effect. Let's get in touch:  All we have to do is submit our will to Allah in seeking guidance from the Quran and the life of the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) in sincerely trying to live up to his role model. That's how we try to fulfill life's purpose. On a side note if we take a moment to understand the lives of the Prophets Yusuf and Ayub (Job) (Peace be upon them). Yusuf (PBUH) was faced with tribulation and ended up with relief. While Ayub (PBUH) had a good life and ended up with severe tribulation. Completely opposite life trends for both the Prophets of Allah, yet the same solid commitment to Allah! Just this snippet of the wealth of Allah's guidance in Islam is so relevant to our pursuit of that perfect spouse that Allah mentions in the Noble Quran. May Allah protect us from any such tribulation. Amin! Two verses in particular come to mind. Quran, Surah Ar-Rum (Chapter 30), Verse 21: "And He has created spouses from among yourselves that you may find tranquility in them, and He has placed affection and mercy between you. Indeed in this are signs for a people who reflect." Quran, Surah Al-Baqarah (Chapter 2), Verse 187: "... They are a garment for you and you are garment for them. ..." NOTE: Please consider the reality that no one can be the "one size" garment that fits all. Attraction is a two-way relationship. And it is healthier and best that way. (Although I have more to add, I'll keep it short). But progress by it's very nature requires some form of tribulation. May Allah help us in our progress and purpose of life. And what exactly is the ultimate purpose of life? It is to humble ourselves to enjoy the worship of Allah, by having faith, doing good, promoting the truth and justice, and advocating patience and peace, while also contributing to humanity in the process, and preparing for the Here-After as the goal. All this while trying to balance life with fun along the way. And it all boils down to choosing between the Freedom of Shaitan versus the Prison of Allah. Choosing the Freedom of Shaitan gives you freedom, and that's all! Choosing the Prison of Allah gives you security, stability and the ever so often opportunity to get out and exercise true freedom, but you also get the moral compass through the Guidance of Allah. You get the opportunity to grow under the supervision of Allah! What thinking human would not want this, and instead opt for the unguided Freedom of Shaitan! Untimately, we all have free agency, and it's our choice between the two. Is all of this easy? Absolutely not! But I'm going to bet on staying the course! If you are a woman looking for an authentic relationship, genuine two-way attraction and marriage,  and let's figure out if we would make an awesome team to take on life together, and work toward the ultimate success of earning the Pleasure of Allah! Barak-Allahu-feekum for taking the time to read a little about me! I truly wish that Allah Grants the best fit of "garment" for you and an excellent life ahead!

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