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Eric
Standard Member
55
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Smyrna, Tennessee, United States
Seeking:
Female 31 - 51
Body style:
Slim
Searching for special one
Iâm a laid back kind of guy, easy going, compassionate, generous, witty, confident and have integrity. Iâm fun-loving; ambitious yet amicable. I am financially stable and take pride in being dependable. Honesty is extremely important to me and I try to be transparent with people that I am close to.
Patrick
Standard Member
47
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San Antonio, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 36 - 52
Body style:
Slim
A GREAT AMERICAN MAN FOR YOU.
I am a caring, successful, confident, and fun-loving man who lives in Texas, USA. I am looking for my best friend and lover for marriage. I am very honest, affectionate, and loyal! I go to the gym to workout every day to look good and have a nice body.
Yogi
Standard Member
43
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Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 25 - 50
Body style:
Slim
Easy going friendly well educated and well settled outgoing happy go lucky guy. I enjoy out doors and animals. I have been to china few times. I am looking forward to visiting china in the future. Looking for a good honest person to meet for marriage. I am a software engineer by profession. I have my masters degree from the United States. I live in Los Angeles. I am looking for some one who can converse in English. Please don't take this in a wrong way. I believe language is very critical in life long marriage. Culture comes next. Food is after. Language, Culture, Food are three important key factors for a good relationship. The rest will fall in place. I am a healthy individual who likes some one who enjoys a healthy life style too. Covid has really changed things for every one. In lieu of covid I am still hopeful that we can travel consciously.
Gary
Standard Member
Verified
71
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Fayetteville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 55 - 72
Body style:
Slim
Soulmate Alert!
i am young, as they say...in heart, mind and body, am 5'5", slim, athletic, and searching for new friends to share memories with. i enjoy traveling, adventure, flirting, the arts, music, sensual delights, sports, and film. as a southern gentleman, i am mild-mannered, easy-going and romantic, and like to nurture friendships to find that special spark. i am young at heart, love new adventures with friends, and enjoy the simplicity of life!
Greg
Standard Member
41
•
Montpelier, Vermont, United States
Seeking:
Female
Body style:
Slim
Happy Valentine â¤ď¸â¤ď¸â¤ď¸
About me : I'm a nice guy, sweet and smile a lot... I'm clearly a geek / nerd, even my work is in IT field (Solution Architect) Some women think I'm not "manly" enough, maybe too sweet... or just too small ? Ha ha I love science, adventure, traveling, going for restaurant dates or coffee shops. I also like healthy people, important to keep fit :) Or just stay home and play games, watch movies, read books
Jordan
Standard Member
Verified
48
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West Palm Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 40
Body style:
Slim
Blue Eyed Fun Loving Sweetheart Looking for Love
I'm a fun loving guy, sweet, loyal, honest, intelligent, loving, nurturing, the kind of man that you can always count on. I'm a really good listener, I'm patient, I'm compassionate, have a loving giving heart and I am the happiest when helping others. I'm open minded, easy to get along with and easy to talk to. I'm very passionate about my children of which I am a father of two a 11 year old boy and a 6 year old girl. They are at the very core of my universe. You will most often find me running around with my kids of which I have them 50% of the time going from one fun activity to another. We are having fun and living it up. I'm affectionate, love to laugh, great dancer (at least I think I am). I can also be just the right amount of silly, not enough to embarrass you in public but just enough to put a smile on your face. Going out on the town, trying new restaurants, exploring new places and traveling is fun and I enjoy it very much, but I also love to stay close to home too, stay in and watch movies, swim in the pool, barbecue, just relax. I'm passionate about Life, Run a Thriving Successful Business. I'm a CEO, own my own company and Absolutely Love What I do.
Carlos
Standard Member
Verified
45
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Long Beach, New York, United States
Seeking:
Female 26 - 44
Body style:
Slim
My heart yearns for you
I would like to think I'm a good person, try my best every day to be kind, gentle, loyal and compassionate. I'm very affectionate with the people I care about. Always try to give the best of me to everyone and try to keep a positive attitude even when disappointed by someone. Sometimes circumstances makes us do/behave ways we normally would not so I try not to be judgmental without understanding the "why". Open minded and always willing to listen to new ideas and points of view and like everyone I have my flaws but I'm always ready to admit my short comings and acknowledge a good argument.
Angel
Standard Member
70
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Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 45
Body style:
Slim
Greetings, and best wishes on your search.
I am retired with the ability to travel, speak English, Spanish, learning Mandarin and Vietnamese, I like Asian cultures, and understand they are not the same. I am easy going, and don't like conflict, I have learned to enjoy and appreciate difereces, I learn from them.
Rich
Standard Member
Verified
74
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Tallahassee, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 68
Body style:
Slim
Only REAL women need apply.
Way too many scammers and fakes. Don't even bother contacting me, I will NOT send any money to anyone I have not met in person. Period. If the profile doesn't tell me enough about myself, simply ask. I will not lie to you. About anything.
Lean
Standard Member
24
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Miami Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 99
Body style:
Slim
Dominican boy Latin đŠđ´Live in Miami florida đşđ¸
I am a very simple man I like to read, play basketball, cook, I drink a little, I am loving, I like spending time with my partner, discovering new things, traveling together, going out, I like to work, I am the type of man who doesn't like to be at h
Charlie
Standard Member
65
•
Asheville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 70
Body style:
Slim
Drive fast⌠donât look back. đď¸
If a drop of water falls in a lake there is no identity but if it falls on a Lotus leaf it shines like a pearl⌠I am an American man who fully retired end of 2023, nice guy and a gentleman. Iâm always reaching for the sky and you should read the Skye book cwbeckjr because the man in the book is like me. Loves all types cuisine, song, dance and culture. I have my teeth, no facial hair, tattoos, or piercings, and employ good hygiene. Early years were spent living and working along with my peasant parents on a farm in Ohio from age 10. Siblings are two younger brothers, no sisters. Retirement came end of 2015 after representing for 22 years 3 French, 1 German, 1 Swiss, 1 British and 1 Australian manufacturer in a marketing/sales capacity in the equine industry: love horses and all critters! Also had manufactured to my spec and brand name a line of sunglasses made in Taiwan which I did a buy/sell purchased in quantities of 1k up. Also, did a buy/sell on a line of bronze sculptures made in Thailand. Prior to that was middle management for two Fortune 500 companies. My activities include domestic and international travel, cooking, dining out, wine tasting, competitive duplicate bridge, kayaking, craft beer socials, growing orchids, reading, picnics. I have spent on and off through the decades more than 50 visits to Mainland China, HK and Macau. My last China visit was February, 2019 and I plan to visit in 2024. A good relationship is predicated upon mutual understanding and respect. We will share household duties equally. Live alone. No Children. Own home.
Bill
Standard Member
Verified
52
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Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 35 - 48
Body style:
Slim
Tall and Traveled with Humor
Good family, parents are still married. Love travel, cafes, good humor. Balanced with a modern mind and traditional heart. Not greedy. No bad emotions. Strong leader and make decisions easily. Raised to protect and secure the welfare of the woman and children. Please note however, I am looking for a wife. I am not looking to send money to someone whom I have never met. Lets not waste each others' time...Serious only....if you ask for money then that will be the last letter between us.
Randall
Standard Member
32
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Daytona Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 38
Body style:
Slim
Honest, Trustworthy, Everything Works
Career Writer/Author/Pro Photojournalist seeking sensual sidekick. We all get one lap in the race of life, and we all get a different hand of cards, so to speak. The journey can be way more fun and a great deal more exciting with the right partner. I have been seeking that perfect partner for, oh-too long now. I trust that she is out there, and I know that fun, companionship and romance await. Life is short. Eat dessert first(!). I enjoy cooking, tanning, long walks on the beach, all types of auto racing, especially drag racing, and I pride myself on being a good guy.
Jared
Standard Member
Verified
30
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Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 20 - 36
Body style:
Slim
Looking for a stranger.
Hey, I'm Jared. I've lived and worked in Texas my entire life. I'm currently in Dallas-Fort Worth, TX, USA. I'ma freelance digital artist who has contracted with authors, game developers, and local businesses. I'm a pretty weird person and might be crazy, but I'm down to earth and at least try to be honest with people who matter to me. My greatest passionshobbies include Technology, Video Games, Sports, Politics, PhotoVideo Editing, Illustration, and spending outdoor time with family. If you don't like karaoke or cosplay, gtfo.
Joey
Standard Member
44
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Petersburg, Virginia, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Body style:
Slim
Joey Green Eyes IG: Stolen1st đ¤ł
Green eyesđ Light brown hair Ripped like Jesus!..đŞ IG: Stolen1st 𤳠âđĽđđđ đ¤đâ Very laid backđđ Funnyđ Romantic & playful & adventurous Not as mean as I look đť No kids Never married (By choice) No rushđââď¸ No gamesđđź Be genuineđ Looking for a friend, a partner, a teammate, an equal, my better half..đ Someone to help take on the world! đ If you're gonna ask me to download Another app, to talk. Swipe left! I'd prefer you don't have kids.
Dandon
Standard Member
Verified
57
•
Brunswick, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 31 - 65
Body style:
Slim
I lived in Japan for 5 years and fell in Love
I retired in 2016 after a 30 year career. I have a 28 acre hobby farm. I got bored 4 years after retirement so I went back to work. I am a Leo, love the sun, music, golf, biking, hiking, swimming and to be outside. I really enjoy cooking, exercise, everything in moderation. I don't do drama, keep things simple, clean, organized. I live a good life, I am Happy I have travelled a lot. Let's simply be happy and enjoy life!
ned
Standard Member
69
•
Torrance, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 40
Body style:
Slim
Seeking kind, beautiful lady !
I am kind hearted, sincere gentleman with a nice personality. I love to keep in shape. I play golf, basketball, go jogging and try most of the time to lead a healthy lifestyle. I also enjoy reading, going to movies and breathing in the clean ocean air. I want to build a lasting relationship with the right lady and enjoy a nice future together.
Nicolas
Standard Member
Verified
36
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Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 30
Body style:
Slim
I'm 33 years old, young single professional. Looking to date someone new. I am an executive for an industrial company and I also own a restaurant. I'm a committed and loyal to my family. I was in a 15 year relationship with my ex-wife and we
dennis
Gold Member
59
•
Fort Myers, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 23 - 53
Body style:
Slim
A Gentleman and Father and Captain !
Gentleman and officerâŚ. From poor family of nine siblings âŚ.âŚhad to work from age 14 to pay my own catholic high school tuition. Married age 18 and two sons by my age 21. Both my sons are now police in New YorkâŚ.like dad⌠I was police age 20 ..then detective .sergeantâŚlieutenant..and then Captain. College part time in my 20s and 30s⌠Was a long road always working two jobs until,the rank of Captain . Iâm neat clean and a gentleman âŚ.and love travel ⌠Iâm,single many years now and have my new home in sw Florida usaâŚ.Fort Myers⌠5 11 tall ..175 weight âŚ.thin with blue eyesâŚ.
Joel
Standard Member
Verified
41
•
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 25
Body style:
Slim
Here find love
My name Joel,I am fun energetic man. how is loving caring, romantic, love to cook and have fun. I'm chef but I work and I am working on a book writing a and like to write songs as well. in the future would like to get in to singing and acting I hav
Frank
Standard Member
Verified
81
•
Kissimmee, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 45 - 65
Body style:
Slim
Thank you for reading my profile. I have been married twice. I have been in love three, maybe four times. I have been hurt several times. I'm nothing special. I'm not a stud or the world's best lover, and I posses no ultra wonderful powers or special qualities. I like to dance, good music, I am laid back, but not lazy, I enjoy the outdoors, as well as cuddling, candlelight dinners, looking at the ocean or the sky, and quite often just spending evenings at home alone, or together with someone special. I am really not hard to please, and I will always do my best to please you. I am not perfect, but I am considerate of others, and I am a good person. I am not rich. I am retired with a small pension, but I will come to your country to meet him in person if we both agree that we want a serious relation with each other. I'm probably not going to take your breath away, or sweep you off your feet, but I'm not going to cheat on you, disappoint you, or let you down either. I'm looking for someone truthful and honest to share my life and my dreams with. Someone I can trust with my innermost feelings, my private thoughts, and my desires. Someone who treats others the way they like to be treated. In short, someone who is a gentle and tender human being. I know that there are no perfect people, I'm not looking for perfection. God knows I'm far from perfect, but honesty, faithfulness, and truthfulness will certainly go a very long way in establishing the foundation for a good, long term relationship. **************************** ćä¸ć說ä¸ćăćĺ¨ćçéťč Śä¸ä˝żç¨çżťčŻç¨ĺşăć襡ĺżĺ¸ćä˝ č˝ć¸ ćĽéä¸éťăĺŚćä¸ćŻďźčŤĺčŤćă ćčŹć¨éąčŽćçĺäşşčłćăć塲çśĺ ŠćŹĄçľĺŠäşăćććäşä¸ćŹĄďźäšč¨ąĺ揥ăć弽嚞揥ĺĺˇäşăćć˛äťéşźçšĺĽçăćä¸ćŻä¸ĺééćä¸çä¸ć弽çć äşşďźćć˛ćčś ĺźˇçĺéćçšćŽçĺ質ăćĺćĄčˇłčďźéłć¨ĺžĺĽ˝ďźćĺžć éďźä˝ä¸ćść°ďźćĺćĄćśĺ¤ć´ťĺďźĺćĄććąďźçĺ ćé¤ďźç澡ć´ć夊犺ďźčä¸çśĺ¸¸ĺŞĺ¨ĺŽśčŁĄĺşŚéćä¸ďźćč ä¸čľˇćäşşçšĺĽăćççä¸éŁĺć ďźććçĄĺĺć ä˝ ăć丌ä¸ĺŽçžďźä˝ćĺžéŤč˛źäťäşşďźććŻä¸ĺĺčŻçäşşăćä¸ĺŻăćéäźćé¤čéĺžĺ°ďźä˝ĺŚććĺé˝ĺććĺĺ¸ć彟ć¤äšéäżćčŞççéäżďźćć茪čŞĺ°ä˝ çĺ厜ĺťčŚäťăćĺŻč˝ä¸ćčŽä˝ ĺąä˝ĺźĺ¸ďźćč ćä˝ ĺžč łä¸ćé¤ďźä˝ćä¸ć揺é¨ä˝ ďźčŽä˝ 夹ćďźćčŽä˝ 夹ćă ććŁĺ¨ĺ°ćžä¸ĺčŞ ĺŻŚĺčŞ ĺŻŚçäşşäžĺ亍ćççć´ťĺ夢ćłăćĺŻäťĽäżĄäťťä¸ĺäşşçĺ §ĺżďźç§äşşçćłćłĺćçć žćă䝼äťĺĺćĄçćšĺźĺ°ĺž äťäşşçäşşăç°Ąčč¨äšďźćŻä¸ĺ溍ćč溍ćçäşşăćçĽéć˛ćĺŽçžçäşşďźćä¸ćŻĺ¨čż˝ćąĺŽçžăä¸ĺ¸çĽéćé éĺŽçžďźä˝čŞ ĺŻŚďźĺż čŞ ĺčŞ ĺŻŚĺż ĺ°çşĺťşçŤčŻĺĽ˝çéˇćéäżĺĽ ĺŽĺşç¤ă
Dennis
Standard Member
Verified
65
•
Florence, Kentucky, United States
Seeking:
Female 31 - 61
Body style:
Slim
Loveland Cyclist
I enjoy cycling 16 to 32 km daily when the weather permits. I am active in the Church, I enjoy hiking, going to festivals and most anything outdoors. My favorite entertainment is Asian drama. My favorite Chinese dramas are é ĺžčŚĺ˝çćć , ććççžĺłćć , and 弽ĺ ç. Perhaps To Be a Better Man is my favorite because diverse individuals grow and bond with each other inspite of terrible circumstances. More about me....I like to work outside in the yard. I like all foods, especially Chinese. What else.....I love to pleasure a woman and have the ability. Your pleasure is my pleasure.
Frank
Standard Member
55
•
Phoenix, Arizona, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 50
Body style:
Slim
Seaching for the one and only.
I'm a very easygoing person that gets along with anyone. I'm respectful and nonjudgmental. I like to do various fun activities indoors and outdoors. I'm college educated and self employed. My family is originally from China and Hong Kong.
Ed
Standard Member
60
•
Sacramento, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 26 - 44
Body style:
Slim
Share life, share hope, enjoy people
I've travelled a lot, I've seen a lot. I don't want someone who wants to use me a lot. I am looking for someone who is sincere to them selves and sincere in a relationship. If you think you could cheat, don't bother. I am honest and I look for the same and the ability to talk about it...I know we may not always agree. Right now I'm enjoying lots of mini vacations, boat camping on lakes and rivers with my friends and my dog. A lot of my friends like me because I take care of my things and I am particular about my things and some of my friends like me even though I take care of my things and I am particular about my things. To anyone who has children, I'm sorry, but I respect the mother and child relationship too much to want to try and seperate them by this much distance. I enjoyed seeing and interacting with my niece and nephew growing up and even though I really like children, I don't want any, I don't have any and I can't provide any. I really enjoy my family! I have a great brother and really enjoy my sister and her family. My parents are the most important people to me right now and I really enjoy every minute I get with them! Please be honest in your profile, i am honest in mine. Thank you for you interest in me. Maybe we will get to enjoy and smile at the world together.
Realperson
Standard Member
69
•
Lake in the Hills, Illinois, United States
Seeking:
Female 28 - 50
Body style:
Slim
where i can find true love?
Never been married, hardworking person, always doing the best. Independent and confident. Friendly, compassion, loving, nice personality. Enjoy nature, camping, cooking, good food, travel, music, reading, movies, life, family and friends. Strong family oriented person.
Darrell
Standard Member
68
•
Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking:
Female 58 - 66
Body style:
Slim
American man looking for a Chinese mate
I'm 68. Yes, I think I'm too old to start over in a relationship but I'm willing to try. My two boys are half Chinese. I have been to China several times and loved the country. I even took my mother once and the way she was treated was wonderful. She was 80 at the time. I think the Chinese women are the most beautiful in the world.
John
Standard Member
80
•
Andover, Minnesota, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 50
Body style:
Slim
Looking and Hoping
I am a retired Christian Minister who believes in equality, fairness, good communication, faithfulness, helping others and complete surrender to the love of another. I am a giver and give all of myself. This time I want to find another giver. No selfish or self-centered women need to apply. I am very interested in a foreign or undocumented woman because that is the kind of person that I am. Age is not a consideration. My last girlfriend was 30. I have a big house in Minnesota but would like to move where it is warmer. The only way we will know if we are compatible is to communicate with each other.
Brandon
Standard Member
30
•
Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 42
Body style:
Slim
No scammers, please. Serious inquiries only.
I'm a mature professional driven by my career. I often find my time for socializing is limited. However, I'm laid back and easygoing. I deeply value honesty, emotional intelligence, and people who genuinely care. I tend to speak my mind, for better or worse, but you can always count on me to tell the truth. As an ENFJ, I wear my heart on my sleeve, but it also makes me very attuned to others' feelings and needs. In my free time, I love to read, landscape, and garden. I enjoy leisurely walks in the neighborhood or on a trail, both in the morning and evenings. I have an affinity for crafting cocktails. Whether it's dressing up for a nice dinner and late-night dancing, or cuddling on the couch and binge-watching some TV, I'm up for it all. Traveling is a passion of mine, and I've been fortunate enough to visit several countries. I'd love to find a traveling companion on this site. ...If you're into buzzed heads and beards, let's talk! (Or just sit on my face.) Profile pic current as of May 16, 2024.
Terrance
Standard Member
Verified
52
•
Palm Bay, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 42
Body style:
Slim
I'm not a doctor...sorry!
I'm a mature and positive-minded American guy with a good heart and sense of humor. Educated, well-traveled, able to relate and respect people from different backgrounds, faiths, and cultures. Like almost any medical professional, traits of integrity, compassion, accountability, and resourcefulness are fundamental to my work ethic and overall character. I have no bad habits, lead a healthy lifestyle, and exercise regularly. The warm climate and natural habitats of Florida motivate me to spend the most of my spare time outdoors, usually a fitness routine, or the next home improvement project. One of my mottoes: "don't call it work if you're doing what you love. " Additionally, I enjoy spending relaxing evenings inside my home where I cook, clean, and confine myself to various hobbies and interests that might one day be shared and developed mutually. Admittedly, the woman whom I could spend the rest of my life with is not likely to be found without great effort, and thus I decided to expand my search in places near and abroad. I'm seeking serious relationships leading to love and marriage; serving our family as honorable husband, devoted parent, and cherished friend.
andrew
Standard Member
Verified
26
•
Orlando, Florida, United States
Seeking:
Female 18 - 31
Body style:
Slim
Hi! Read my profile!
Im 26 even though ppl tell me i look 19 or 20 đ . Im a gamer, metalhead and engineer student. Very shy at first but ill start loosening up with time. Originally from venezuela but live in the USA since 2015. Anything else just message me and ask đ
Toussaint
Standard Member
Verified
46
•
North Charleston, South Carolina, United States
Seeking:
Female 30 - 44
Body style:
Slim
Traditional Tech Man
I am hardworking, semi ambitous, level headed and directive man. I expect success because I put forth the effort. I understand that we all make mistakes, but I expect to learn from them as well. I believe in showing emotion but I am not emotional.
Benito
Standard Member
61
•
Dover, Delaware, United States
Seeking:
Female 33 - 53
Body style:
Slim
Enjoy life to the fullest
I'm retired, widowed. Own my home. Have a 2018 toyota tacoma. Am temporarily living in Tijuana Mexico. My house is in Chula Vista CA. Only 5 miles from the Mexican border. I like to bike, fish, run, go to the gym, dance, fast cars, go for walks. I drink most every day, but with food at supper time. I like to stay busy. Easy going. Respect women, I'm not domineering. I joke around. I will get serious about a matter that is important for me and my family. I like a clean home. Affectionate.
Johnny
Standard Member
65
•
Fullerton, California, United States
Seeking:
Female 24 - 40
Body style:
Slim
Pathfinder to a better life.
Semi-retired. I think a lot. Imaginative. Honest. Blunt. Realistic. I know what my purpose is. I have a destination and a roadmap for getting there, in a co-created sacred union with you. Youâll feel safe, because I understand where the human world is headed, and how to survive it. Youâll feel loved, because I would only enter into an intimate relationship with a woman I loved. Youâll feel happy, because I have the ability to write and perform comedy. Youâll feel supported because I want your full feminine power, dark and light. Youâll feel aroused if we have enough connections, and you understand how Iâm offering the highest status of all: first-hand experience of what weâll experience when we die. If you donât know what youâll experience when you die, then the worst case is possible (unimaginable suffering forever), and you have no way of stopping it. If you do know, then youâll know why youâre here, and how you should live while youâre here. And Iâm not talking about religion. I donât believe in any religion. Suppose you had a magic wand and you could create your dream guy: richer than Bill Gates, President of the US, smarter than Einstein, more handsome than any movie star, funnier than any comedian, the greatest athlete, a great singer, a courageous warrior, hot, good in bed, and he loves you. Can you think of anything greater for you than that? (And if you can, throw that in also). Well, there is something better for you than that. That guy is powerless to protect you from death. So you are helpless, and at the mercy of whatever happens then. You might say, âI live on through my kids.â Yeah, but what about YOU? Or you might say, âWhen I die, I just cease to exist, and thatâs it.â Then why are you afraid of death? You: âIâm not afraid of death.â Me: âBullshit.â Whatâs better for you than Mr. Dream Guy is a guy who can bring the two of you to a âOne-With-All-That-Isâ experience. When youâre one with everything, youâll âknowâ everything, and thatâs the definition of enlightenment. Death would then be nothing to fear. You would know what matters in life. That is the ultimate happiness, the ultimate prosperity, the ultimate status. Other people have experienced this. Scroll down to âDescribe the Ideal Relationshipâ. My personality is very cognitive. I think about things more extensively and deeply than most people. Things that can only be seen cognitively are real to me, only ideas to most people. I also seek a deeper level of intimacy than most people. Honest. Blunt. Persevering. INTJ-A. I think in terms of solutions, not problems. Imaginative. Attracted to intelligence. My attitude: a small percentage of humanity is constituted with no ability to perceive the emotions of others (no empathy, sympathy, or conscience). They know only their own emotions and desires. They trample on everything that is not them to get what they want. Eventually they destroy everything. The scientific term for them is Antisocial Personality Disorder (APD). It is a long-term pattern of manipulating, exploiting, or violating the rights of others without any remorse. This behavior causes problems in relationships, in work, and is often criminal. Natural selection favored those who desired to be in a group. But APDs survived in the gene pool because they hoarded. Today they are so wealthy that they control and dominate the human world, which is a gangster state. So everything is screwed-up. Nobody goes to jail (unless theyâre poor). Insanity makes the world go âround. Sanity is only possible through connection to Spirit, All-Being, what people call God. âWithout that connection you perceive yourself as an isolated fragment in an alien and hostile universe.â - Eckhart Tolle. There is a higher status/prosperity/happiness than being rich and powerful. Itâs that of one who has had a union with Infinite Intelligence, and has some wisdom about what will happen to you when you die, and how to conduct yourself while youâre here. If you donât know what will happen to you when you die, then the worst possibility is just as likely as any other possibility, and money and power canât keep you from dying. I believe you can get that connection to All-That-Is, because other people have done it. My passion: I am passionate about deepening intimacy. I want you to feel safe, loved, supported, happy, and aroused. We can connect with All-That-Is through intimacy, and then share what weâve learned with the world.. I have studied Deida, Margot Anand, Wade, Tolle, and Eben Alexander. Masculine but not a jerk. There for you but not a wuss.
Steve
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Santa Clarita, California, United States
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Creative guy looking for ltr
67 year young single guy looking for that final chapter with someone special. Adventurous, creative guy who a passion for music, art, and conversations about anything. Kids are grown, I finally have time to include somebody special with me to enjoy
Dennis
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Winter Park, Florida, United States
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I consider myself to be a typical male, self assured, confident, a sense of humor and tend not to be impulsive. My lifestyle is simple and uncomplicated. I endeavor to be positive amidst daily turmoil and avoid any unnecessary "drama" in order to maintain balance and harmony in my life. As the saying goes "Life is too short" to sweat the small stuff. I guess it comes with maturity and learning to accept those things that we cannot change. To that end I prefer a peaceful, quiet environment conducive to conversation. I listen intently, and appreciate being listened to as well. It is most important that we are able to express our complete thoughts if we are to understand each otherâs wants, needs and fears. I am sometimes patient to a fault. My life is challenging and full, but it would be so much richer if I were able to share it with a special someone. I have lived in many places and traveled considerably in the past because of my job. In my leisure time I enjoy bowling and volleyball. My spare time has been spent finishing up an extensive remodel of my principal residence which has been difficult but a rewarding experience as I have done the majority of the work myself. I enjoy a beer on occasion on a hot afternoon when working outside or around the house, mostly on the weekend.
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