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Charlie
65 Asheville, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 70
Body style: Slim
If a drop of water falls in a lake there is no identity but if it falls on a Lotus leaf it shines like a pearl… I am an American man who fully retired end of 2023, nice guy and a gentleman. I’m always reaching for the sky and you should read the Skye book cwbeckjr because the man in the book is like me. Loves all types cuisine, song, dance and culture. I have my teeth, no facial hair, tattoos, or piercings, and employ good hygiene. Early years were spent living and working along with my peasant parents on a farm in Ohio from age 10. Siblings are two younger brothers, no sisters. Retirement came end of 2015 after representing for 22 years 3 French, 1 German, 1 Swiss, 1 British and 1 Australian manufacturer in a marketing/sales capacity in the equine industry: love horses and all critters! Also had manufactured to my spec and brand name a line of sunglasses made in Taiwan which I did a buy/sell purchased in quantities of 1k up. Also, did a buy/sell on a line of bronze sculptures made in Thailand. Prior to that was middle management for two Fortune 500 companies. My activities include domestic and international travel, cooking, dining out, wine tasting, competitive duplicate bridge, kayaking, craft beer socials, growing orchids, reading, picnics. I have spent on and off through the decades more than 50 visits to Mainland China, HK and Macau. My last China visit was February, 2019 and I plan to visit in 2024. A good relationship is predicated upon mutual understanding and respect. We will share household duties equally. Live alone. No Children. Own home.
Frank
81 Kissimmee, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 65
Body style: Slim
Thank you for reading my profile. I have been married twice. I have been in love three, maybe four times. I have been hurt several times. I'm nothing special. I'm not a stud or the world's best lover, and I posses no ultra wonderful powers or special qualities. I like to dance, good music, I am laid back, but not lazy, I enjoy the outdoors, as well as cuddling, candlelight dinners, looking at the ocean or the sky, and quite often just spending evenings at home alone, or together with someone special. I am really not hard to please, and I will always do my best to please you. I am not perfect, but I am considerate of others, and I am a good person. I am not rich. I am retired with a small pension, but I will come to your country to meet him in person if we both agree that we want a serious relation with each other. I'm probably not going to take your breath away, or sweep you off your feet, but I'm not going to cheat on you, disappoint you, or let you down either. I'm looking for someone truthful and honest to share my life and my dreams with. Someone I can trust with my innermost feelings, my private thoughts, and my desires. Someone who treats others the way they like to be treated. In short, someone who is a gentle and tender human being. I know that there are no perfect people, I'm not looking for perfection. God knows I'm far from perfect, but honesty, faithfulness, and truthfulness will certainly go a very long way in establishing the foundation for a good, long term relationship. **************************** 我不會說中文。我在我的電腦上使用翻譯程序。我衷心希望你能清楚這一點。如果不是,請原諒我。 感謝您閱讀我的個人資料。我已經兩次結婚了。我戀愛了三次,也許四次。我好幾次受傷了。我沒什麼特別的。我不是一個鉚釘或世界上最好的情人,我沒有超強的力量或特殊的品質。我喜歡跳舞,音樂很好,我很悠閒,但不懶惰,我喜歡戶外活動,喜歡擁抱,燭光晚餐,看海洋或天空,而且經常只在家裡度過晚上,或者一起有人特別。我真的不難取悅,我會盡力取悅你。我並不完美,但我很體貼他人,我是一個善良的人。我不富。我退休時養老金很少,但如果我們都同意我們希望彼此之間保持認真的關係,我會親自到你的國家去見他。我可能不會讓你屏住呼吸,或者把你從腳上掃除,但我不會欺騙你,讓你失望,或讓你失望。  我正在尋找一個誠實和誠實的人來分享我的生活和夢想。我可以信任一個人的內心,私人的想法和我的慾望。以他們喜歡的方式對待他人的人。簡而言之,是一個溫柔而溫柔的人。我知道沒有完美的人,我不是在追求完美。上帝知道我遠非完美,但誠實,忠誠和誠實必將為建立良好的長期關係奠定基礎。
Johnny
65 Fullerton, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 40
Body style: Slim
Semi-retired. I think a lot. Imaginative. Honest. Blunt. Realistic. I know what my purpose is. I have a destination and a roadmap for getting there, in a co-created sacred union with you. You’ll feel safe, because I understand where the human world is headed, and how to survive it. You’ll feel loved, because I would only enter into an intimate relationship with a woman I loved. You’ll feel happy, because I have the ability to write and perform comedy. You’ll feel supported because I want your full feminine power, dark and light. You’ll feel aroused if we have enough connections, and you understand how I’m offering the highest status of all: first-hand experience of what we’ll experience when we die. If you don’t know what you’ll experience when you die, then the worst case is possible (unimaginable suffering forever), and you have no way of stopping it. If you do know, then you’ll know why you’re here, and how you should live while you’re here. And I’m not talking about religion. I don’t believe in any religion. Suppose you had a magic wand and you could create your dream guy: richer than Bill Gates, President of the US, smarter than Einstein, more handsome than any movie star, funnier than any comedian, the greatest athlete, a great singer, a courageous warrior, hot, good in bed, and he loves you. Can you think of anything greater for you than that? (And if you can, throw that in also). Well, there is something better for you than that. That guy is powerless to protect you from death. So you are helpless, and at the mercy of whatever happens then. You might say, “I live on through my kids.” Yeah, but what about YOU? Or you might say, “When I die, I just cease to exist, and that’s it.” Then why are you afraid of death? You: “I’m not afraid of death.” Me: “Bullshit.” What’s better for you than Mr. Dream Guy is a guy who can bring the two of you to a “One-With-All-That-Is” experience. When you’re one with everything, you’ll “know” everything, and that’s the definition of enlightenment. Death would then be nothing to fear. You would know what matters in life. That is the ultimate happiness, the ultimate prosperity, the ultimate status. Other people have experienced this. Scroll down to “Describe the Ideal Relationship”. My personality is very cognitive. I think about things more extensively and deeply than most people. Things that can only be seen cognitively are real to me, only ideas to most people. I also seek a deeper level of intimacy than most people. Honest. Blunt. Persevering. INTJ-A. I think in terms of solutions, not problems. Imaginative. Attracted to intelligence. My attitude: a small percentage of humanity is constituted with no ability to perceive the emotions of others (no empathy, sympathy, or conscience). They know only their own emotions and desires. They trample on everything that is not them to get what they want. Eventually they destroy everything. The scientific term for them is Antisocial Personality Disorder (APD). It is a long-term pattern of manipulating, exploiting, or violating the rights of others without any remorse. This behavior causes problems in relationships, in work, and is often criminal. Natural selection favored those who desired to be in a group. But APDs survived in the gene pool because they hoarded. Today they are so wealthy that they control and dominate the human world, which is a gangster state. So everything is screwed-up. Nobody goes to jail (unless they’re poor). Insanity makes the world go ‘round. Sanity is only possible through connection to Spirit, All-Being, what people call God. “Without that connection you perceive yourself as an isolated fragment in an alien and hostile universe.” - Eckhart Tolle. There is a higher status/prosperity/happiness than being rich and powerful. It’s that of one who has had a union with Infinite Intelligence, and has some wisdom about what will happen to you when you die, and how to conduct yourself while you’re here. If you don’t know what will happen to you when you die, then the worst possibility is just as likely as any other possibility, and money and power can’t keep you from dying. I believe you can get that connection to All-That-Is, because other people have done it. My passion: I am passionate about deepening intimacy. I want you to feel safe, loved, supported, happy, and aroused. We can connect with All-That-Is through intimacy, and then share what we’ve learned with the world.. I have studied Deida, Margot Anand, Wade, Tolle, and Eben Alexander. Masculine but not a jerk. There for you but not a wuss.

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