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Curl
73 • Vancouver, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 65
Drink: Don't drink
A Wonderful Journey
I’m fun, funny and playful. I enjoy movies and reading. I like pickleball and kayaking. I have traveled to all 50 US States. I have traveled to 41 countries. I have been outside the United States 68 times, mostly when I was an international business consultant. I’m not a pet person. I am a devout Christian. I currently live in Vancouver Washington. I retired in October 2025. I am an organizational psychologist. I worked for a university in a staff, non teaching position. My major responsibility was developing senior leaders. My recent major trip in 2025 was in Europe, a cruise to the Mediterranean. My favorite color is light blue. I am a very affectionate person. I am not willing to relocate.
Zachary
63 • Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 44
Drink: Don't drink
Hi!
I live in the United States in sunny south Florida. I am a school teacher. I love to travel and be adventurous. I have traveled to 26 different countries. I like to scuba dive, fish, surf, try to dance, work out,bike ride, etc. I attend church regularly and try to put God first. I think Colombian women are attractive. I would be interested in meeting an attractive woman to communicate with and if things went well have a serious relationship with.
Mike 🇺🇸
37 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 50
Drink: Don't drink
Interested in marriage only
Hello everyone I am Mike nice to see you everyone i live in United States work as software programmer here looking girl for marriage I like mostly😊 travel 🧳 cooking 🍳 Swimming beach 🏖️ Learn different countries culture better to know each other real Thank you for visiting my profile
William
37 • Newark, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 21 - 30
Drink: Don't drink
Looking for a Friend leading to getting together
If I add you to favorite If you are real and serious please leave me where to get a hold of you. New York City Busy Executive, clean, easy on the eyes looking for Friend first. My greatest strength, besides my driving, is the ability to make you laugh. I am seeking a good relationship! I am a great cook and I will cook your favorite dish.
Shahriar
46 • Orlando, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 44
Drink: Don't drink
Sharing Love is the most satisfying experience
Long Term relationship, no game, no lies, no faking. i expect the same in return. Self-motivated, know what I want, fun loving, sense of humors, i cherish a life with laughter, joys, and fun. For me, either get it or dont touch it, if decided, never leave till the end. Success to me must b defined by peace and tranquility. I won't make a mistake to find a relationship either. Nature lover, Everyday intimacy, and LOYALTY: big plus! SCAMMERS! Plz try me once!😎
Newton
57 • San Luis Obispo, California, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 46
Drink: Don't drink
Mind of an engineer, soul of a poet
I am an engineer and love what I do. I live a healthy lifestyle with exercise and eating well. I do not drink, do not smoke, do not take drugs and avoid artificial medicines as I can. I practice self defense and martial arts. I don't watch television. I have eclectic tastes and an eccentric personality. I am something of an idealist and romantic despite my interest in the sciences and material world.
Tony
55 • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Drink: Don't drink
Back 2 Good
USA Man, Retired,Traveler, Musician, Financially stable, Masculine personality, Animal lover, PinYin, Available for friendship or relationship, , Must video chat to verify, Passport. There is a lot more about me if you are really interested.
DAMON
56 • Englewood, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 60
Drink: Don't drink
Journey With Me!!!
Hello everyone, I'm a guy who enjoys the simple pleasures of life and appreciates the value of meaningful connections. I’ve spent my years building a fulfilling career and creating a life full of great memories, but now I’m looking to share that with someone special. I firmly believe in staying mentally and physically active—whether it’s going for a daily walk, staying on top of current events, or diving into a good book or documentary.
David
73 • Kahului, Hawaii, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 65
Drink: Don't drink
Life is always sweeter with two...
I’m looking for a genuine connection where we can laugh often, feel at ease in conversation—or even in comfortable silence—and enjoy life side by side. An irresistible spark would be a wonderful surprise. I love simple but meaningful moments: walking through the woods, watching the sunset on the beach, wandering city streets or museums, dancing at home, going to concerts, savoring a great meal, and holding hands in beautiful places. When it’s right, it just fits. Rather than seeking “perfection,” I focus on becoming the right person for the one who’s meant for me. My heart is to build a God-centered marriage with a like-minded Christian woman who shares my faith and values. I’m in the motion picture industry (www.whiteowlfilms.com), so life on set will sometimes be part of the adventure. I’m easy to please, deeply romantic, and looking for someone kind, loving, respectful, affectionate, fun, and full of integrity. What matters most is that we truly “get” each other, trust each other, and cherish what makes us unique. ` I’m looking for a Christian woman who genuinely loves the Lord, speaks English, and shares similar values. Faith is very important to me, so if Christianity is not a part of your life, we probably wouldn’t be the right fit. But if you do share that foundation, I’d love to connect and see where God might lead us! ..
David
61 • Billings, Montana, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 25
Drink: Don't drink
Insta: sbrdavidmt
I am a peaceful, kind, loving, generous man. I like to go on adventures but I also like to stay home and enjoy a warm and comfy home. I am financially secure and I take care of myself and my body. I believe a man’s role in a relationship is to protect and support his wife and family.
Don
51 • Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Drink: Don't drink
Are you real?
I am a nurse working in interventional radiology. I make good money, I own my own house. I don't like the attitude of the typical American woman and that is why I'm on this site. I like to keep my self in good shape as you only have this body and i want to make mine last as long as possible. I am not a Gym rat, vegan, nor a health nut. I just like to look good for my partner so she can be proud to me my lady. I would never expect the same of my partner. If they want to work out, that's great, if not, then, That's ok also. My Insta handle is rnpracticespecialist. Pls message me there. If you do not have profile pictures, I will not respond, as I have uploaded my photos and expect you to do as well. Hope to speak with you soon.
Shane
46 • Burlington, Iowa, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 42
Drink: Don't drink
Just me
My faith in Jesus Christ is first for me. I am not a doctor because i work in the medical field. I can not visit your country first, i need close to a year to find a backup for my job. So i seek someone who will visit here first. I like to go hiking in nature regularly. On and off to the gym. Music dancing like a goof ball in my front room. I can be corny and embrace it often. Also serious and take care of business. The partner i am looking for would be kind hearted and compassionate. Intelligent and resourceful. A humorous woman with a adventurous side. Online is difficult most people lie about themselves to get the girl , so the very few who are completely honest get no luck. Here is a good example... I am a very Honest, Kind , Intelligent, funny, Caring, responsible man who has taken care of his children and others for most of his life. I am a Christian who has a deep devotion to my faith. I make 6 figures , own a very large home, Have a fulltime house keeper and nanny. Have no serious mental problems, drugs, alcohol or anything that causes me to loose control. I have a very fortunate financial circumstance with my unique career and impressive plans for my future. Every word i typed is completely true and accurate. However i live in a location with very few who use online dating apps. No big cities close to me. I am very picky according to all who know me, so if i contacted you, take from it what you will.....
Momo
24 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Drink: Don't drink
Looking for a Genuine connection
I'm an Egyptian-American living in Egypt, combining my passion for technology as a Senior AI Engineer with a love for creativity. Publisher of some books and research papers in the field of Ai. Have a deep love for designing, so I work as a Jelwery
William
44 • Dothan, Alabama, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 42
Drink: Don't drink
Looking for her
I am a Military Veteran. I have enjoyed doing many things in my life and meeting many good people. I have never been married and have no children but I do hope to start a family one day. I have enjoyed many hobbies in my life. Photography, painting, writing, acting and many other things. I believe very strongly in being with only one person. Life is not always easy and neither are relationships. There will be many good days and some bad days, but I stand beside who I choose to be with with commitment. Love is a balance and sometimes my partner will fall, but she can trust that my hand will reach for her to catch and bring her back to find balance. God gives us the gift of choice and when I make my choice, I faithfully commit to it. Imperfections are only imperfect until you understand that to someone else they are perfection and that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. So never feel less than another and love yourself just the way you are.
Saleem
70 • New York, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 33 - 63
Drink: Don't drink
Talented Artist Seeks Compatible Good Wife.
Heavyset, but youthful looking, even-tempered, passionate, older man with good sense of humor, but, serious about his faith. Work from home-bound professional artist specializing in celebrity comical commercial illustration, who is now attempting to develop a successful business with his own work.
RP
51 • Los Angeles, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 62
Drink: Don't drink
Never one to waste words. We may chat, rp246
I believe in the golden rule: I treat others how I want to be treated. I have high emotional intelligence...a gentleman who is calm, caring, deep thinker, generous, hard working, humorous, loyal, open-minded adventurous, stable. I enjoy learning about different cultures and languages--teach me yours. When I say "I love you," it's unconditional.
Sean
75 • Littleton, Colorado, United States
Seeking: Female 51 - 66
Drink: Don't drink
Loving, Passionate man.
I have been in the computer industry for 50 years. I retired in 2022. I am a professional flute player in multiple bands and orchestras. I have 6 children ranging from 23yo to 51yo. 4 boys, 2 girls. I have made hundreds of dives around the world. I am a PADI dive master. I like to build. I like to garden, I enjoy putting on a large Christmas light show with 30,000 lights. I built a 15-meter-long pirate ship in my front yard with three 7' cannons I designed. The cannons fire smoke and go boom! Every year we get more than 5000 people who come on the ship.
Chris
40 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Female 20 - 35
Drink: Don't drink
Let's meet and get to know one another!
I am a happy guy and I genuinely like people. I have my own company so I am blessed to be able to have a very flexible schedule. Family is very important to me and I hope to find others that share strong family values. Reach out to me, I'd love to get to know you.
kin
69 • Salt Lake City, Utah, United States
Seeking: Female 46 - 64
Drink: Don't drink
Are you more than just another pretty face?
I could give you a strong list of facts and qualities about myself, but the early over exposure might just ruin the fun of the romance. I'll say this , I've an awareness and passion for life that seem to be very rare. I have an amazing family and the best friends in the world, I've my health and an artistic talent that allows me to create some amazing things. I've partied and chilled with people from almost every walk of life. Suit and tie or shorts and flip flops... it’s all good. If you have read this far then there is some interest. Go ahead, send me a message; window shopping is okay, but I'm interested in a women of resolve and strength who is willing to take the next step... besides, I don't bite. At least not until the third date...
Anu
73 • Oak Harbor, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 39 - 58
Drink: Don't drink
your children or your bestie are welcome
real estate is more expensive than Seattle, but it is a great place to live,life expectancy is the highest out of 46 counties, I do,do your like massage ? I'll give you plenty ! in my island group there are 3 that are large,2 with pop.of 7k,very safe for children.i live on San Juan island,town of Friday Harbor
Salvatore
75 • Paramus, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Female 39 - 49
Drink: Don't drink
Wise healthy strong kind generous, & prosperou...
Was born & raised in NJ next to NYC, NY, USA. But moved to California to attend law school, & learn about organic health food & juicing revolution then. Built a law firm there then sold it to build a mechanical engineering business building devices for sports training, in CA, then sold it in 1990 to build other patent-pending mechanically engineered devices now here in NJ near where I was born & have family. As a hobby, I also formulate organic longevity juices & brew per my proprietary all-natural procedure which can some day base a big business. I hope to meet a woman who is fit, & healthy, & very comfortable with me.
Jes
45 • Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 99
Drink: Don't drink
US citizens only unless you want to travel to me!
No divorce No panties No bra Shaved bare No condoms No after sex pill 💊 No plan B No birth control No nothing That is my requirements. 😘🥰 I absolutely LOVE Chinese, Japanese, Thai, Korean, Malaysian, and Filipina girls/women 😍 🥰 🤤. Well let me start with, I am a big gamer (PC of course 😁) and I absolutely LOVE big asses (if you have a medium ass or small ass I absolutely LOVE you too). So if you don't like it, move on. Simple. Ohhhhhhhhh and I absolutely LOVE submissive girls/women😍🥰 Any age is fine, but you have to be willing to give me children 🥰😍😘 Well ‪Let me start by saying that I had a stroke on August 28th 2019, a month in a medically induced coma, after many years of therapy I can now talk. I have Aphasia, a Seizure disorder, and a stutter because of it. I am disabled. Before I was disabled, I used to be a server administrator for a lab. I had a kidney transplant on May 2, 2022, needless to say, I am on anti-rejection meds for the rest of my life. I am on SSDI, Social Security disability insurance. I am looking for my 2nd wifey, my wife has PAH (pulmonary arterial hypertension). She is on meds that cause birth defects, so we can not have any. She said I could find one. I found her in 2015, she was with me since the stroke. I will not leave her. Sex multiple times a day every day, of course, normal stuff too She wants me to find a companion all-inclusive/2nd wifey. She wants me to find a companion in case she dies and I'm still around.
Raymond
41 • Medford, Oregon, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 50
Drink: Don't drink
Looking for my princess to marry
I’m a nice guy and I like sports. I was in USA military when I was young. Now I am truck driver. I think China is wonderful. I love China and it’s my dream to marry a Chinese woman and live in China with her. But because Chinese immigration laws are strict, it might not be possible for American to live in China. Maybe me and my future Chinese wife can live in USA and visit China often. I want to learn to speak Chinese.
Matthew
51 • West Palm Beach, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 48
Drink: Don't drink
44yo. Looking for marriage. 
I am tall 6'4. I like to exercise and be healthy. I am intelligent, funny affectionate, romantic, loyal, hardworking, honest and spontaneous. I whole heartily believe in respect. I am a confident man who knows what I want in this life. I like to travel and I do it often. I'm a good listener who likes to talk about life. I love philosophy and learning new things. If you're a person who likes to impress people or think money is everything in life, we're probably not compatible. I have a great job and I have my own house and vacation often. I'm looking for someone to love and spend my life with.
Joe
68 • Fayetteville, Arkansas, United States
Seeking: Female 32 - 60
Drink: Don't drink
Spiritual Beings Only! No mask wearers!
Live off the grid.Truth seeker.I love peace & quiet. Please understand that I prefer to live in the woods.I like to travel,but don't like staying in cities for a period of time. I work out regularly & eat healthy.Wifi, & emp damage your Dna & I don't want to be around it as much as I can. Don't respond if you are not into health,hiking traveling,knowledge,spirituality.
ned
74 • Torrance, California, United States
Seeking: Female 24 - 40
Drink: Don't drink
Seeking kind, beautiful lady !
I am kind hearted, sincere gentleman with a nice personality. I love to keep in shape. I play golf, basketball, go jogging and try most of the time to lead a healthy lifestyle. I also enjoy reading, going to movies and breathing in the clean ocean air. I want to build a lasting relationship with the right lady and enjoy a nice future together.
Frans
60 • Vancouver, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 34 - 60
Drink: Don't drink
Looking to love and be loved
Hard working blue collar guy from the pacific northwest looking for the one woman to be my wife, freind, partner and lover! I am a God fearing man and value the same in my future wife. U have a huge heart full of love to give to the rite woman. You dont have to be perfect cayse I certainly am not....we just have to be perfect for each other.
David
46 • Richmond, California, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 38
Drink: Don't drink
Living life freely
 I am 39 years old, 5'6" tall, slim and I live in richmond. I'm a computer engineer for work. I live alone and I do not smoke, drink or use drugs. I love music and I play guitar. I produce and make beats. I like concerts, museums, zoos, beaches, games, anime, movies, reading, bikes, going to the gym, cooking, restaurants, travel, festivals, conventions, hiking or anything fun. I am a nerd at heart and love documentaries. I have a ton of hobbies and interests.
Ron
66 • Tinley Park, Illinois, United States
Seeking: Female 27 - 65
Drink: Don't drink
Oldblueyes
Ni hao ma? Hello my beloved angel...I have been told that I'm a good, honest, and sensitive man, with a kind heart and respectful of others...I enjoy playing guitar, being in nature, love the water, boating, dining out, and traveling, and much more...How about YOU? I've been divorced for 10 years and I am waiting for YOU my beautiful happy, kind, and lovely Asian angel...When I lived in California I worked for several Asian companies and I must say that I enjoy the culture, the food, and especially the Asian women, who are the most beautiful in the world. I am always joyful, always smiling ,and I hope my Asian sweetheart is the same ..I have no temper, no anger, and I am at peace with all life..Namaste! I am very serious about matrimony ASAP even though people don't believe my age and say I look 20 years younger. .I would love to have a candlelight diner with you every night and slow dance in the hall and fulfill all your fantiseeeees, even the naughty ones darling and I will always treat you like a princess and a queen because in my eyes and heart you always will be.. .Do you want to walk on the beach into the sunset, hand in hand with your blue eyed honey?
danzer
53 • Huntsville, Alabama, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 40
Drink: Don't drink
Want a family/do not use filters on your pictures
I enjoy life and like riding my motorcycle. I love nature and rescuing animals. I am easy going and do not stress over issues. I like many genre of music and movies. I also enjoy world history. I have been in the military and have traveled to many asian countries. I am familiar with many customs and traditions of many places such as Philippines, Japan, Singapore, Malaysia. I want children in future so please want same.
Wooden
56 • Wenatchee, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 42 - 55
Drink: Don't drink
in search of the temple that will hold my heart.
I am from the United States, I am not Asian, I am Native and yes I look Asian. Scientists have determined the ancestry of natives through DNA profile and have determined that natives are a hybrid of all other races. We are Asian, black and white, those races make up natives. As you can see we have strong Asian influences. Our children are all born with what is called the Mongolian mark which is significant with Asian groups. If you were to see a picture of my people all setting around eating potato chips in comparison to an Asian group setting around eating potato chips you’d not find a lot of difference. Native men are large, broad chested, very strong looking. I love to laugh, humor is medicine for the soul.
Frank
84 • Kissimmee, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 45 - 65
Drink: Don't drink
Thank you for reading my profile. I have been married twice. I have been in love three, maybe four times. I have been hurt several times. I'm nothing special. I'm not a stud or the world's best lover, and I posses no ultra wonderful powers or special qualities. I like to dance, good music, I am laid back, but not lazy, I enjoy the outdoors, as well as cuddling, candlelight dinners, looking at the ocean or the sky, and quite often just spending evenings at home alone, or together with someone special. I am really not hard to please, and I will always do my best to please you. I am not perfect, but I am considerate of others, and I am a good person. I am not rich. I am retired with a small pension, but I will come to your country to meet him in person if we both agree that we want a serious relation with each other. I'm probably not going to take your breath away, or sweep you off your feet, but I'm not going to cheat on you, disappoint you, or let you down either. I'm looking for someone truthful and honest to share my life and my dreams with. Someone I can trust with my innermost feelings, my private thoughts, and my desires. Someone who treats others the way they like to be treated. In short, someone who is a gentle and tender human being. I know that there are no perfect people, I'm not looking for perfection. God knows I'm far from perfect, but honesty, faithfulness, and truthfulness will certainly go a very long way in establishing the foundation for a good, long term relationship. **************************** 我不會說中文。我在我的電腦上使用翻譯程序。我衷心希望你能清楚這一點。如果不是，請原諒我。 感謝您閱讀我的個人資料。我已經兩次結婚了。我戀愛了三次，也許四次。我好幾次受傷了。我沒什麼特別的。我不是一個鉚釘或世界上最好的情人，我沒有超強的力量或特殊的品質。我喜歡跳舞，音樂很好，我很悠閒，但不懶惰，我喜歡戶外活動，喜歡擁抱，燭光晚餐，看海洋或天空，而且經常只在家裡度過晚上，或者一起有人特別。我真的不難取悅，我會盡力取悅你。我並不完美，但我很體貼他人，我是一個善良的人。我不富。我退休時養老金很少，但如果我們都同意我們希望彼此之間保持認真的關係，我會親自到你的國家去見他。我可能不會讓你屏住呼吸，或者把你從腳上掃除，但我不會欺騙你，讓你失望，或讓你失望。  我正在尋找一個誠實和誠實的人來分享我的生活和夢想。我可以信任一個人的內心，私人的想法和我的慾望。以他們喜歡的方式對待他人的人。簡而言之，是一個溫柔而溫柔的人。我知道沒有完美的人，我不是在追求完美。上帝知道我遠非完美，但誠實，忠誠和誠實必將為建立良好的長期關係奠定基礎。
Michael
73 • Rockville, Maryland, United States
Seeking: Female 40 - 54
Drink: Don't drink
A man with depth and taste
I obtained my Ph.D. in the US and also did two post-doc. after that. Then been working in IT field in world top 100 company since, and also have my own business. I like travel, literature, film, music, sport, dancing. I am open minded and optimistic and always to look for better tomorrow.
Dennis
69 • Florence, Kentucky, United States
Seeking: Female 31 - 61
Drink: Don't drink
Loveland Cyclist
I enjoy cycling 16 to 32 km daily when the weather permits. I am active in the Church, I enjoy hiking, going to festivals and most anything outdoors. My favorite entertainment is Asian drama. My favorite Chinese dramas are 遠得要命的愛情, 杉杉的美味愛情, and 好先生. Perhaps To Be a Better Man is my favorite because diverse individuals grow and bond with each other inspite of terrible circumstances. More about me....I like to work outside in the yard. I like all foods, especially Chinese. What else.....I love to pleasure a woman and have the ability. Your pleasure is my pleasure.
Del
63 • Bismarck, North Dakota, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 57
Drink: Don't drink
Hardworking, kind,god fearing loyal gentleman.
I work hard every day. A hard working respectable man, A simple man with a simple life. Very kind,compassionate, caring,loyal and very humble. I am a one woman man. And I would like to have a woman who I can protect and spoil as my queen. A God fearing man of high integrity and morals. A one woman man.

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